please rethink your tactics m8. u seem far too gungho!

tone it down a lot!

and if a girl doesnt reply to a txt, dont text her again. i was cringing reading your original post.

high school is not a place to try out stuff, u can fuck your status. you came accross wierd m8.

good luck m8

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Nyseto,

First, I apologize. I think I did you wrong by skipping through a few steps and assuming that you had some basic concepts of our little game. Judging by your responses, you probably do not.

Second, I still think you have the ability to do this and I still think that your writing abilities are your 'way in'. You 'thought it out' and you 'put yourself in her shoes' but YOU DID NOT write, read, and revise. This is a very important step for you as when you see your own writing on paper, it allows you to detach yourself from your own words and correct yourself prior to pressing the send button. You have a very lucid writing style . . . writing is easy for you. It would be a shame to not take advantage of an asset that you already own.

So let's get to work:

1. Please read i-like-you-you-like-me-vt79450.html?highlight= and try to understand the concept. Understand why the last iteration is MORE EFFECTIVE than the first.

Now here's your latest interaction with your girl:

Me: It's angelo, are you still hating on me? - DO YOU NOT LIKE ME?
Her: What do you mean? - WTF?
Me: Well, you blocked me on fb and all.. - I have proof that YOU DO NOT LIKE ME
Her: I don't like putting up with bullshit drama - I DON'T LIKE IT WHEN YOU PLAY THE I LIKE YOU, I DON'T LIKE YOU, DO YOU LIKE ME, OR DON'T YOU LIKE ME BULLSHIT
Me: There's no drama anymore - OK, I'll stop . . . sucka! Keep reading because I'm going to dish out more!
Her:Okay - Thank God. . . Oh shit, I spoke too soon . . .
Me: Your homeroom teacher (my teacher) told me that you asked about the drawing few weeks ago - But my teacher told me that YOU LIKE ME.
Her: Yeah when we got report cards he talked to me about it. - Well, I ACTUALLY DO.
He told me "shame on that freshman girl chasing after senior" haha jk - He also tells me that you're a dork
Her: Yeah - (This one flew right over her head)
Me: Btw, was that Halloween stuff even true? idk why your friends told me - Now may I offer a reason why I SHOULDN'T LIKE YOU?
Her: No. This is why i don't talk to you. Because you say that kind of stuff. - You're bringing this bullshit up again? Fine, I DON'T LIKE YOU.
Me: That's what Morgan told me so I assume you weren't so innocent. I mean your friends told you false things about me - No, no. Hear me out. Let me REALLY TELL YOU WHY YOU DON'T LIKE ME and I SHOULDN'T LIKE YOU.
Her: No she didn't. Like please dont talk to me. And stop lying. - OK, I REALLY DON'T LIKE YOU. Are you satisfied?
Me: She told me on the day we started the fb war lmao. Our buses were late and she said, "ye well u know she has a bf. I also heard she gave head to guys on Halloween" - Ha ha ha . . . and you give BJ's on Halloween. I'm not sure if I LIKE YOU.
Her: Kcool - (This one flew over her head as well)
Me: Well that's why we argued b/c too many people were talking shit - Well, it's not MY FAULT that I DON'T LIKE YOU you and YOU DON'T LIKE ME. Blame it on other kids.
Me: I don't see why we can't get along, you think I hate you and stuff - BUT YOU COULD LIKE ME though couldn't you?
Her: I personally dont care about anything. Especially all this shit talking. So i aviod it and you cause it. - You are giving me a fucking head ache.
Have I said anything for the past month? No. Your friend came up to me today...you asked rajen if I've said anything else, etc. - I DON'T LIKE YOU BUT YOU LIKE ME. Rajen tells me so.
Her: Thats such bull. I never ask him about you. I really dont care about you. - Can you drop it already?!?!?
Me: When you two met at the mall. He just tells me. But look it's ok, saying you dont care is like me saying it's 50 inches long you're a cool person, kinda funny at times so anyways take care, everyone makes mistakes (teasing her) - Ha ha, you're lying. I got you! Really, My man Rajen tells me YOU LIKE ME. But it's OK. I'm cool with that.
Her: Whatever bye - What a fucking idiot.
Me: Aight, don't forget to look at the portrait tonight again lmao - I LIKE YOU SO YOU SHOULD LIKE ME and look at my portrait.
Me: One more thing. Your friends are jealous and always will be. How did you expect they would react after seeing you being the only girl who had things going on that they could only dream of. I had to reject Kelly a few weeks ago. Morgan probably told me that Halloween thing b/c she knew I would confront you about it and make me look bad. Everything that happened wasn't bs. I don't care if you don't care. Think about it. - Before I leave, I'd like to kiss your ass a bit. I hope that's OK with you. Don't forget, I LIKE YOU, sort of . . . but I don't care. You shouldn't either.

Take a look at the above. There are more than a thousand ways to revise your crap so that the "HIGH LIGHTS" read, "Hey, I think you're cool. I'd like to spend some time with you because I think it will be a lot of fun." It would only take ONE SENTENCE and she would reply with only one word.

Seriously . . .

That's MESSED UP...but I couldn't agree with you more. Most of them are common sense except for when she says the bullshit drama thing. I never thought of it that way...

For that highlight I could have said something like, "Look, I don't think it's worth for any of this to go to waste, it's been so long since we talked, let's chat tomorrow."

At the time of talking to her, I did feel like I was texting the most words and that I kept trying to persist on proving a point. It was good up until and including the part where I said, "I don't see why we shouldn't get along".

think you should def go for the apology dude. your rep at school could be at stake here so unless you fancy the idea of never fucking another girl you go to school with get into damage limitation mode. i dont think i would bother gaming this girl again, you came across wierd and her pals all seem to be against you, cut your losses. it would be very hard to save this situation. maybe impossible.

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- Giacomo Casanova

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Thing is that her friends are now coming after me because they like me. I already rejected one of them. And when I pass by her passing period, she sees me hugging all these girls along the way as I walk towards and past her.

When I walk on campus and I see one of her friends, I get checked out. I mean, I know I'm one of those good-looking guys. It's inevitable for them to look. And plus, when her friends came up to me saying shit, they were all smiling and acting nice when on facebook they threatened that they would slap me/ "beat my ass".

In a group, they are all a bunch of tough shits but if it were one on one with me, I could pick each one of them off like a vulture.

still, unless ther is a special reason you want this girl just forget it. there are plenty others.........

why not even fuck one of her mates if you like any of them as your pretty sure you could, then why not? that way you have the last laugh as this girl may, in time, feel jealous and that she has missed out and could even make it possible to do her at a later date (if your taking this angle then make sure its not her best friend)

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"Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova

TIOCFAIDH AR LA

Kasabi, there is another girl, but I told her I was done 2 months back and ever since then, I haven't said a word to her which makes me feel bad. I sent her this text after 4x of writing and revising:

"Lydia, I've never randomly met someone so special far away, it's just that we should chat since it's been so long with so many things that have happened."

No apologies or kissing ass, it's the best I could come up with. I was basically thinking, "I think you're really something and I like you so I want to talk to you since I missed you."

now your gettin it!

thats much more like it m8y boy!

one thing i will say tho. dont rely too much on text an email as your message can be missinterpreted (not so relevant to the text you just sent) as they dont get the tone of your voice or what words your emphasising. so phone and face to face is always better. heres an example of what i mean;

'I NEVR SAID YOU STOLE THE MONEY'

read it out over and over, each time putting emphasis on a different word. it can be taken with a lot of different implications. sometimes its not the words you say but how you say them. thats why you should never text when theres any kind of aptmosphere or conflict always phone (original post)

hope you use this pal

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"Man is free; yet we must not suppose that he is at liberty to do everything he pleases, for he becomes a slave the moment he allows his actions to be ruled by passion. "
- Giacomo Casanova

TIOCFAIDH AR LA

Nyseto,

I'm impressed. It takes a lot of guts to accept past mistakes and move forward. It seems you have now become clearer with your goals. Finally, you have some direction and we have some materials to begin the process. Just as a reminder:

The "HIGHLIGHTS" in my previous post are the messages that you were trying to convey, whether you really wanted to or not.
So you understand how/why: basically communicates this: DO YOU NOT LIKE ME? - This is NOT your goal is it? Your goal isn't to dig for information like some ‘pick up cop”. Your goal is to create/accentuate her attraction for you and spend some time together, correct?

So trying to convey this message:
is progression in the right direction as this is an honest expression of what’s in your heart. We have a few technical things to work on . . . I'll give it some thought while I fry up my chicken/shrimp curry fried rice.

Kasabi - where did you learn to be this well spoken
you sound like the picture u put a ...wise man

fm,

thanks.

Nyseto,

Let me know if this new direction is something you'd like to pursue.