I have the option of seeing this girl for a bit in the morning everyday but i dont (afraid of friend zone). I talk to her every other day on the comp while she's at work. On her lunch break she gives me a call all the time. I can feel that she likes me by all the attention, but at the same time I'm not sure because of two reasons. One, she has a boyfriend and two, when i ask her to hang out 9 out of 10 times at the last minute she says something came up and cant. She gives me IOI'S and we get along Sooo well. all we do is laugh about everything and just in case i get to close to the friend zone i start flirting and she flirts back.

Now recently she asked me what I want for xmas and I said a kiss. And she responded with the "idkkkk lol thats cheating i dont know" after that i brain washed her just a bit and she ended up saying "i'm gonna think about it". after that we pretty much changed the subject but talked only a little and then said goodbye (left while ahead). She does tell me she isn't happy with her boyfriend, but she doesn't want to be called a cheater and a little scared he'll find out.

Any ideas on what to do next meet online, when i see her again in person, how to escalate, what not to do too much and what to do more of??????????

This is a really interesting idea to me.

It really makes sense, though. Too much time spent together with a HB that has a BF = rapport = LJBF.

I have an identical situation with one of the chicks I'm working right now.

Here is what Blondguy has to say about it.