...since the beginning of my pickup career.

I can only redouble my efforts and plunge deeper into this world, in the hope that I can in future avoid such painful encounters.

Although right now, I feel somewhat empty, I suspect I will seek perfection once this has passed.

Sky

Let's call it a glimmer of romantic idealism.

The first real, deep connection I felt like I'd made with a girl in a long time was dashed to pieces. I understand why and there arguably a thousand outside influences that have contributed to the conclusion.

However, that doesn't make the reality of the situation any less crippling.

Hey man, a lot of us can relate, myself lately too. What's up, what exactly happened? Talk about it bro.

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I know what you mean. Im trying to get over the same thing myself.

I feel your pain. I gone through something similar recently.

Remember they're all always special, later you'll meet another one who is special too. Don't get caught in scarcity mentality.

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grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

One-itis is a hard thing to avoid, seemingly. I've always been a single woman guy, but I'm trying to stray away from that myself. There are plenty of fish in the sea, though, friend. You are only going to open more legs than you thought possible, because of the fact that you are humbled even more.

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My ex-gf is my perfect 10 in terms of looks. I've been seeing a lot of other girls recently, but the other day I saw her for the first time in a while and it got me thinking about her more and regretting having broken up with her, etc. etc. I was thinking how I'll never meet a girl who has such striking looks, is as hot as her with all the cute character traits and all the strong personality characteristics that I liked about her.

Then I was randomly on plenty of fish (which I barely go on anymore) and I stumbled across a profile which I thought was hers! It wasn't. It was a profile of a girl that looked amazingly similar to her, except was even hotter! She described herself with the same traits that my ex had, except she was more intelligent, better educated, more together and we had more stuff in common.

I just started laughing. I wasn't allowed to message her, but frankly I don't care.

The point is, for every girl you think is special and one in a million, there's another girl out there that's even hotter, more interesting, more fun, and will be even more into you when you meet her because you'll have learned from your past mistakes and will have even tighter game and will have more going on in your life to tell her about.

There is no failure except not trying. Everything else is learning.

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I had a similar experience. Women have a strange way of creating the illusion of scarcity. This is how they create their 'value'... by making us feel like they are rare and unusual. But the more women you meet.. the more you realize the majority are not "special" they are regular people like everyone else. I can say I have found more variety in men than women. This possibly because men are more independent by nature while women tend to always stick to groups which leads to "group think".

But the point is.. women are amazingly similar. Almost to a point that its sad. I remember that first girl in High school who I believed was so "special" and "like no one else". Then I went to college and met another girl just like her. Same personality, same sexy accent, similar appearance, etc.

The beauty of being a PUA is you will meet so many women in your life and over time you will realize they can all be replaced and UPGRADED. Every single one.

Every day around 240,000 girls turn 18. We are not running out of them

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I haven't even been keeping track of this.

The irony is, that two days after this post, I fucked her.

I can assure you, gents, that she is certainly unique, in a way that I personally have never encountered in all my time womanising.

Case closed.

I will say no more on the matter.

Thanks for your posts.

Sky

Well done Sky!

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