I was at pint night last night and tried lots of different material. In particular, there was a girl I picked in line to get in. A blond 8 with a very unique face. told her that a girl n my italian class mentioned in a presentation that men lie more than woman and described her as satan. She laughed, and said, "crazy", still making eye contact for a few seconds. I talked about my objections and she just kept saying "crazy" so I told her she was a broken record and like my niece "who repeats the same thing over and over again". "How old?" she asked. 8 in february. "crazy". I said, holy shit, you really are a broken record, can you say anything but crazy? I think I'll call you loca from now on. She walked inside.

I passed her later and said, Loca!! she didnt respond, and I said, Dont worry, I'll get you a coloring book with reindeer for christmas just like my niece and you might like that. still no response. I never had a chance to DHV, and I feel like I had her at first in line...

I believe I was too hard on her, and I probably seemed like I cared how she was responding, which sends mixed signals. Here, I tell her that she can't talk, but I still am talking to her. I am working on negging right now, and I really can't get a feel of how much creates attraction. ANd should it only be in the beginning, only until you have her attention? Or should negging be used throughout. and if so, is it safe to use the same negs, even if though it seems they are not working?

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Abro Kadabro,
university of south carolina