1. Should I game a girl that my "best friend" broke up with about a month ago? She seems interested in my.

BUT WAIT...BEFORE YOU SAY "NO HE'S YOUR BEST FRIEND" READ THIS...

2. I have an AMOG problem, not in front of girls, but directly undermining me. There was a girl I was gaming named Sam, I was in a love triangle and of the 2 girls, she was the one who couldn't deal with it and didn't want to hook up.

My AMOGer is my "best friend" Josh. Today at lunch I asked him if he was talkin to her, he said "yea, since you've been slackin I've been workin towards squeezin the shit out of that fine ass". I was also talking to him and my friend Neel about throwing a party, bell rings, I say "let's walk" to which Josh replies "Bryce, you are not a leader".

On an unrelated occassion we're sitting at lunch and cracking jokes at each other along with the other 2 guys that sit with us and he says "Bryce, you know what I love about you? You take all this crap and never do shit"...this stuck in my head.

I knew Josh last year and we were good friends, but this year...I don't know...

So could somebody please answer both these questions for me? I know I have to deal with him now, he pissed me off and is AMOGing me in front of his friends, I need to know what I have to do.

Please help, thank you.

Sounds like he's douching it up for you. Read some of the stuff on natural game, being alpha and being confident. this is a great link for that.
body-language-the-key-to-natural-game-vt71495.html

Practice being alpha in the mirror. Give yourself the best alpha stance, with eye contact, head up, chest out (not so much you look stupid).

Put yourself in the alpha aggressive mindset. By this I don't mean be an ego-filled douche, I mean be a confident and maybe even a little intimidating person. This does not mean not to smile, this means that you're gonna have a good time, but you won't take other guys shit.

When you see him again, make eye contact, don't look away, don't smile, say something to this essence in a serious tone (might wanna practice the serious tone in the mirror too), "Stop giving me shit. I'm not going to take it." to any snide remark, don't say anything. Use your eyes to convey your message.

And yes. game Samantha. He might be your friend, but from the sound of it, you're currently his bitch.

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Game Sam? The ex that I'm referring to is named Bree, just in case you meant her instead of Sam

You have two options. You can cut him out of your social circle, or you can threaten to fight him if he keeps talking shit.

Personally, I think it's much more mature and alpha to just cut him out of your circle. If you keep doing what you're doing you're accepting his second rate behavior and you have no right to bitch about it.

Well today I didn't really interact with him aside from shakin his hand in the mornin. Talk to his ex, she's def interested.

I had the same problem, the guy couldn't open a girl to save his life (neanderthal) but if I opened a set he'd swing in and try to Rack Jack me. He succeeded once, but that one time was a solid two set of HB9s and he just walked in and started insulting me.

Needless to say, he quickly lost my services as a wingman for a while, and lets just say his success rate plummeted. On that note, girls he'd steal off me with his AMOG routine are coming back for me, because he'd go complete AFC when he lost me as leverage.

Because he's was my friend outside of Gaming (which is seldom on a University Campus) I eventually ran into him at a party. He tried his old tricks, but this time I just looked at him like what he was saying didn't even phase me. Girls saw this, and instead of gravitating to him they try to tighten their hold on me because he looks like he's an AFC trying to play AMOG. Now I'm considering bringing him on as a wing again because he's working to my advantage.

As far as cracking jokes about "Take all this crap and don't do shit", don't let him phase you. The only way he can feel dominant is by constantly trying to show dominance over you. I'd just stare him in the eye... long enough until it get awkward... and laugh, cause you know that's the last thing he wants you to do. Laugh it off like you don't give two shits and crack a joke about him.

like the guy said above, your kinda like his bitch. no offense. game the girl bro.

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Thanks Jimmy

I started sittin away from him and I'm gaming the girl

I have the exact same problem, well not with the girls, but involving my friends. I always feel like I'm the weakest guy in the group. Most of the time when we are out my friends just bust on me, calling me gay, etc. It's cool when it's just the guys, but sometimes I feel like I'm the one it's directed at the most, I feel that a lot of it has to do that I just laugh it off and become reactive, does anyone else have this problem? and should I just be less reactive and pretend like it doesn't phase me?

Happens a lot even when there are people we barely know in the group or even around girls we've just met too. It feels like a major DLV when I react since girls feel like it's ok to start making fun of me too. Some of these guys I've known for 10+ years but even when I'm not around one of my friends will talk to people I don't even know and start talking about my flaws (used to be very addicted to video games) so even if I do meet them they already have this negative image of who I am.

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