Ok, so I'm going to try and make this short, frustrated as fuck, havent had any fclose in a month and this chick drives me crazy. So shes probably an 8, were co-workers but we work at different branches of the office. Thats how i meet her. About a year ago my gf broke up with me for being the pice of shit that i was so i tried to game this chick full well knowing my ex gf well be out getting boned while im stuck by myself in this god forsaken city of LA. Sorry for the tangents im kinda an emotional wreck for the past 8 months.

So me and the Hb8 hit it off, mostly through facebook and email...her b/f at the time ends up cheating so im like right on im gona get me some. HA not my luck. She promises to come over that Sunday, but she flakes. I'm pissed but whatever what can ya do, a week later shes got a new bf.

So now its like 8 months later and the relationship is rocky, she complains about how he treats her like shit yadda yadda yadda. So I decided to see if i can get any further this time. I start runing game on her (not even sure if you can call it game anymore im so rusty its kinda sad). And things seem to really well, were sexting...she even send me naked pics of herself. I'm thinking finally i caught a break. Yeah well its 3 weeks later she still with her douchebag bf and I'm pissed. Not sure how to act around her now, how to get her to commit. Any advice is welcome.

Hey man, I think I can help you out a little bit. If you are already interecting to the point she has sent you naked pics this should be easy.

First rule to break couples up is EVERY RELATIONSHIP has problems! Very few woman are really happy in their relationship. Get her to talk about her relationship to you, everything he is not, you are; everything that's lacking for her, you have plenty. if he is too serious, you are adventourous and fun ( I havent yet met a girl who doesnt think of herself as being adventurous - they love this shit! ), if he is to sufocating, you are chill and relaxed. you got the picture? But never say it like you are offering it to her or because of her, you just saying that because that's who or how you are. If she starts complaining he doesn't give her the attention she deserves, you say something like: " when I'm in a relationship I look foward to seeing her. I love to see her smile everytime we see each other, you know?" showing you are what he is not. At the same time, give her the vibe that you have a lot going on in your life. You are the star of your own life and she would be more than lucky to be part of this movie!

put these two things together and it's very effective. most relationships loose passion and adventure over the time and most girls are passion and adventure junkies!! The more she complains TO YOU about her relationship and the more you show INDIRECTLY that you can offer her evrything thats missing the faster she will come to you.

Little trick I use is turn the conversation to sex quickly! but dont say sex, say passion! if she starts talking about her sexlife to you, than it's the same game, everything he doesnt do or its bad at, you love to do! IF she says: " He doesnt like to go down" you say " I really don't understand guys who dont like this. I loooooove it! " believe me the next time he doesnt do it she will think of you! when you talk about sex trie to be visual without being too obvious , believe me she will picture your words and get turned on by them.

I hope this can help you out a little.

Take care,
Hunt

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Salut!
This is the essence, pure gold!

But you've missed one thing - he is an emotional wreck as beind said. This is very important: don't let this affect your attitude towards her! She won't change one sick relationship to another. And if you can't put yourself together, how can you provide her a healthy relationship?

Hope this helps.

Salut!

Surielx.

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until the naked pictures part it sounded like you were her emotional tampon.

grab your dick to remind yourself its still there and do what needs to be done

If a women mentions "he doesnt like to go down " you say, "Ill be your tester "

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Hey Guys thanks for the advice, as far as being the opposite of him well i kinda did that to begin with, i think thats why i got the naked pictures in the first part. Being the emotional tampon is really what i was worried about but i felt validated by the pictures like you said. Can't quite figure out where things went wrong from there, i mean this gril literary promised me sex as in "we will do it soon i promise". But things seemed to die down after the weekend and well just fizzled out over time. Every time i tried to escalate she'd just say something like hahah or go off on a tangent.

I got pissed of at her yesterday when we were talking about how she always does things for guys in her life and doesn't get anything in return. Her boyfriend and boss yadda yadda. I've had just about enough at that point so i kinda told her off. I'm pretty sure i said something along the lines of You always do the right thing for the wrong guy, instead of the one that actually gives a shit. You lead me on and than just left me in the dust. Her answer to it was "o excuse me" and I left it at that, haven't talked to her at all since than but it must have affected here cause this morning i noticed that she put up a facebook update "at home with boyfriend". This is clearly a stab at me but whatever i think its funny. My plan is to just completely freeze her out and let her realize how much she misses me. What do you think.

Well man,

I think this ship has sailed. learn the lessons you have to learn from it and move on! Few things that stroke me: Don't try to be mister right, mister right ALWAYS gets fucked and finishes home with a handjob! His own hand to be clear! I think you let her see too much weakness and that you maybe were looking a bit too much foward to being with her. Women don't feel much attracted to guys who are too good or care too much about them. Insted of telling her off I would have just neged her, put the power in your side again. chicks promises don't mean nothing. I had a girl calling me saying she was on her way over to fuck and never showed up. You think I stayed home waiting for her? Or calledto tell her off? Nope, I went out, met new girls and when she called to apologize I asked one of the girls I met in the bar to answer and say I was not available. I told them was a girl who was stalking me! lol win- win! The girl who never showed asked again for a second chance and believe me I made her work hard for it. One thing I always try to keep in mind when I play is that I prefer to lose the girl than to lose power to her. If you have personal power chicks will come!

In your case in specific, First try to do some damage control. Playing the freeze game is kinda risky, i think she will see right thru it. Me, personally, I would talk to her and say something like " hey, it was not cool the way I acted last time. I guess I was kinda into you ( dont be suprised if here she says ' you were?'). I think you are a great girl, you sexy, smart, fun blablabla but now its clear to me we are not what im looking for. I hope we can still be friends thou, like a said you are a cool girl" Now SHE is your emotional Tampon!!! The tables are turned. ANd one thing woman cant stand is to be bitten in their on game!!!!!!! After that you can reeze her a little bit and show desinterest. And eveytime she would come talk to me I would always have a storie about girls i met or im seeing. if she stats to give you IOIs like comparing herselfto the girls in your stories or anything else, you're back on. And please don't blow it a second time!!!

Best of luck to you man,
ANd control your nerves!! Unless you love her, this is nothing but a game. If you loose one just press reset and start over with a diferent one!

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hey Hunt thanks for the great advice it really makes a lot of sense, man am i out of practice relationships can really wreck havoc on your game. I'm def going to follow your advice. I don't think the ship has sailed I just need some time to let the storm clear i've noticed that chicks tend to always come back around its weird I think i've mastered long term game cause I had this situation happen a bunch of times where i blew a chance with a girl and than a year later shes somehow naked in my bed. We'll see what happens I'll keep you guys posted.

Step one: Add her boyfriend on FB
Step two: Add her naked but 'edited' pictures on FB so you dont get banned
Step three: Tag her in it
Step four: post her and the BF's reactions on here for us to read.

Naughty and most definitely not nice, if you did that dont expect a pressie from santa this year lol

FORGET WHAT I SAID DO WHAT HE SAYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL HAHAHAHAHHAHA

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you know if not for the fact that this girl works in a branch office of my company i probably would hahah...seriously thought about it but really not that cruel.

fuck...back on it again....so after telling her off last time i decided to just plain ignore her. hard since we kind of work together but i kept it professional and nothing more. 2 weeks ago she txt's me for my address and come to find out shes bought me a xmas gift...so i kind of calmed down and figured i might take another shot at her.

So its been two weeks with our back and forth, last week things got heated but still can't get her to commit. She claims that this will make it more worthwhile in the end (i've openly confronted her about playing games at this point). Wich to me just rings super huge alarm bells. This chick thins im an AFC. I really don't know what to do.

Oh yeah she still hasn't broken up with her b/f...seriously I'm confused shes buying me gifts, sending me naked pictures (she sent me new ones last week). And yet when ever i ask her to come over she makes up excuses. Wtf is she getting out of this.

I laughed outloud.

so any constructive insight ?

Hit her up hard, stop taking shit from her, she thinks you're "afc" because you are acting like it.

If she doesn't respond well go out and fuck someone else, she doesn't sound healthy anyway.

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