Hey Guys

I'm new to the community (29 years) and working right now on a HB9 which is for me a "the ONE" Canditate. Her name is "Sara" ( 27 ).
And I'm entering basicly the Pickup game to get her...
Also I'm having parralell an open relationships with a HB10 "Lisa ( 28 )" ... But she is not as cool as the 9 character wise...
This Sounds a bit weard but gets explained later.
So In generell I never had problems to get a 9 or 10. Mostly long relationships trough the "social circle"... and I guess my Dancing is my Pickup weapon of choice...

[edit] Short version:
I get the Sara to know, she wants me, I have a girl friend,I say no to Sara, she goes distanced, I breakup for other reasons with my girl (2 years), I hit on Sara
get no response…, I give up, Sara comes back… , I hit on here, she gives no response… from then on it bounces back and force…
And thats where I am now... I don't know what todo...

I know it is a long one... can't get it better/shorter in engl. explained.
sorry for the poor engl. in advanced!


Long version
---> Introduction:
I got Sara (9) to know via Salsa. We are both dancing Salsa about 5 Years on a semiprofessional Level.
So we are dancer… and most of the time we are going out and hanging around with people
from the dancing community… Salsa,Argentin Tango Hiphop.
We see each other through Salsa pretty much every 2 Weeks at local Events.

---> Past:
Oktober 2009: At the time me and Sara meet, we are both in Relationships for about 2 years.

June 2010: I attend with Sara Classes in Tango. Running about 10 Weeks (I'm still with my Girlfirend),
Sara (9) broke up with her boy in January… I'm starting to get getting interested in her.

June: We are going out for Party with a bunch of people from the Salsacomunity ending up alone
cause everybody else was tired from the event before. We hit the clubs and having a great time.
Until now she did not knew that I have a Girl… I never mentioned it… she did not ask.
We are ending up at home on my Couch and talking about all kinds of stuff. She leaves at 7am.

June: I take with her together Privat Tangoclasses with a good friend (a girl) which is a exceptional Tangotalent.
I'm getting more and more interested In Sara.
My friend the Teacher mentioned to me: Duuude, she is realy interested in you… does your radar catch that?
I was kinda blind for it until she told me...

July: We see us now on a regular bases, but always for practice or salsaevents.
More friends mention to me that they think she is definitely interested…
At this time We have a good Buddy relationship with a sense of "we want each other in the Air..." We kinda admitted it also in the Subtext.. when talking...
I mention to her that I have a girlfriend. She response with a less happy face... But tries to cover it.

August: I mention to her that I'm feeling uncomfortable with her practicing at home
while she is wearing a hot dresses while I'm having a girlfriend…
In my head I was thinking while saying that: "dammed, I want you, just give me a reason to break up with my girl"
I never found out what she thought... I guess She fellt pushed away...
Only That could explain me the following.... so,now it gets weard.

August: She distance herself. We don't practice anymore and don't continue with the next upcoming TangoSemester.
But we are still friends. She asks me once in a while how it goes with my girlfriend

September: I break up with my girl. But for other reasons then Sara, true!
Sara finds out a week later while we are having a chat at salsa.

---> Recent:
September: I start to hit on her, invite her for a coffe, a cooking session, different stuff.
No response. She always answers with SMS or whatever around it or say's she is to busy…

September: I lose interest… Interest and start to date Lisa (HB10)

End of September: Sara comes a bit back… after I go distanced

Oktober: I hit on her again… she backs up again… And from here on It goes back and force. Drives me nuts….

--->fast forward to now:
My thing with Lisa turned over time in to just sex. She is hot, but not "the one"
Starting to try different tactics…to get Sara. I went for example to a little local livemusic event
where I knew Sara would be there. I appeared that evening with Lisa to bring competition in to the Game
Sara gave me huuuuge IOI's that evening. And reacted a little bit disapointed when she first saw her competition.
After that evening Lisa (10) later told me... Hey Sara was very much in to you, wasn't she...?

So I have the crazy situation, That there is an awesome woman, which wants me, but responses not at all or weard...
How the fuck do I game such a person... what can I do to get her more atracted to me...
I'm realy getting nuts.
What can I do? Any tips are more then Welcome...


greets
balloo

I Also want to thx PUAtraining and Adam for there wicked Training material. All Mindblowing stuff...
And Adam. Man you are my Hero. Especially because of your state of mind and that you searched and Found the one! Awesome! Love your speaches!

Anway... The more I look in to Pickup stuff I have the feeling that it does not get me forward in my current situation. Eather I don't get it... or The woman is just Nuts.

I realy don't know anymore further ...

greets and thx for Any help
balloo