So there's this girl in my class who I've been talking to. I posted some stuff on my first post about studying spanish at her house. It went well, not THAT well, but we built about 2hrs of rapport and didn't study much spanish. lol.

Anyways, I've been putting off asking her to go out b/c I'm broke. BUT I've also been trying not to talk to her TOO much at school in order to avoid that LJBF zone. Now that I have a job, and turned 21 the game is on. If i worked w/ this HB7.5 I'd not be having it, but school is fair game in my book...I don't "fish off of the company dock". I've done it, work sucked afterwards.

Anyway, so I get a "facebook" message FROM HER and she challenged me "we need to do a shot drink off comp. now that you're 21! can you keep up w/ me??". I know "don't buy drinks", but what about this time?? do we trade off rounds,or buy our own?? SURE AS HELL I'm not buying all of them! If I do this right, it WILL end very well for me . (You'll read about it) Oh yeah, how do I end up in a good f-close location?

What would you do?

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-Swede

Umm, dont do the competition it impaires you're game you'll probly lose and you'll lose $$. Just tell her you dont have time or $$ for drinking this excessively and just suggest you do somethng more fun and less dangerous.

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

Curse your wrong. You dont know much about booze. When a girl drinks she gets horny as hell. This is your chance to get her in bed if your looking for sex. Second, she wont remmeber what happened and what you can do is leave before she wakes up and that way your relationship will still be close. Go for it and have fun!

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Learn from my mistake...If a girl is interested in you and your interested in her, get her number before you get drunk.

You probly just had one great experience with the stuff and now you think its magic juice, its not.

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'Oh my, you sir are the Moriarty of self awareness and personnal refelection'

What a title!

If thats her first thought about you being 21, you gotta wonder how much she drinks. If you know that she drinks, ALOT, maybe you should avoid her.

Avoid dating girls that have more problems than you. Excessive drinking stems from other problems. She may eventually take it out on you and that ain't healthy.

If it's just her celebrating your birthday make her pay for it. "I'm the birthday boy, I will give you the honor of paying for my first night of shots."

You always have to keep an eye out for instability, and drinking is one cue that this girl is unstable. Alcohol does more than reduce inhibitions, it covers up feelings people don't want to deal with.

I appreciate the concern, and it's something that I DO consider, but I'm not looking for a girlfriend. I'm not looking for that in this girl, just some sex. We shared some stories about our partying history, and she told me that she can't drink anything like she used to. So, I'm not worried about losing.

I will definitely use the birthday line on her for some free shots; thanks for the material btw. Drinking w/ chics has always worked out well for me when I was away at college, because I become a much funner person. I discovered that I let the fun inner me OUT when I drink...the one that's usually held back by timidity.

She has a lot of guy friends, so I see that being the only problem if they are there. I just have to remember, "Control the men and you control the women."

Thanks for the help, guys. Any more thoughts?

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-Swede

I could be wrong but isn't having sex with a chick simply because she's drunk considered fool's game? I mean technically it wasn't your wooing or your skills that had anything to do with making her turned on.

@the OP.

Don't buy the drinks. And if you must drink with her and play drinking games, drink veeeeerrrryy slowly and always keep your eye on the prize and don't get sidetracked otherwise....

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Still Strugglin'

WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!

Number 1, if you had a video of you being so drunk and funny, you would realize something. You're much funnier, wittier, etc. when you are sober. Being drunk makes you feel good, makes everyone else seem funnier, makes you seem funnier to yourself. Your judgment is changed, not your funny bone. This type of thinking leads to an over-dependence on booze. You do not need any substance to be attractive to women.

Number 2, if there are other men there, you will find it much easier to control the set if you are sober and they are drunk. Much easier.

A drink or to to be sociable is one thing, but getting drunk will not help you. Also, you don't want to do all the work of getting her into bed and then be unable to seal the deal. Beware of whiskey Dick.

Good luck and tell us how it goes.

Well if i were you, i wouldn't bother doing any sort of drinking competition with her. It's more of a DHV to drink at your own pace and show your not irresponsible or immature when it comes to alcohol. I can't even count the amount of times i've seen this sort of thing backfire on some of my friends by either them getting sick or just acting stupid and belligerent. The fact that she's offering to go out and drink with you should be enough, just tell her to go out with you and if she insists on shots tell her to buy one round of shots for the both of you as a cheers toast. Then maybe buy her a regular drink later on in the night as payback.

Whenever someone asks me to do a shot with them I usually say "I don't do shots at bars" and my reasons are 1) it's a waste of money and 2) I only do shots for pregaming (drinking before going out). Or if i'm driving that's another reason. Yeah so definitely game this chick and don't fall into her drinking game trap cuz everyone loses in that situation. I think you've got a good chance at getting with her.

why are you on this site then???

go to a fucking bar, get wasted like all the other drunks tools and go hookup with other stupid drunks....you do absolutely no good here

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A lifestyle is a terrible thing to waste.
What I say when I see her is what I'll say.

Normally I would say, don't judge people by their lifestyle, but ark, thats just wrong. Big Rule in PU, Leave her better than you found her. And not everyone forgets what they did when they were drunk. You stand to lose more than you stand to gain from this, and I strongly disapprove of what you suggest here ark.

Ok guys. This isn't about alcohol, it's about helping Swede out. Swede- I say buy a bottle and do the challenge in your room/dorm/house/whatever. If you get resistance at any part, just take her out for some Taco Bell or something then go back and continue. This way you can get too drunk to walk, and then crawl to the bed!

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haha picking up completely drunk chicks means no game at all. theres no challenge or skill...basically that means you can't pick up your own chicks unless theyre wasted.

BUT, if shes buzzed and will still remember everything i'd say at least make out with her. Its so much easier to f-close AFTER you've made out with a chick cuz the emotional and sexual connection si already established. you can kiss her whenver you want and start gettin sexual whenever you want. don't fuck her when shes wasted though thats a sissy way.


good luck bro

The night didn't go as planned. She called to inform me that her friend was going out for her birthday so she felt obligated to join them. She invited me to go out with them if I still wanted to, despite the change of plans (on voice mail while I was at work).

When she called me, after work, to let me know when we were meeting up, she told me that she was DDing for the group. She didn't drink at all. I had 2 drinks and we chatted the whole time. There was a lot of kino back and forth. I made sure to DHV the entire time as well. There isn't a doubt in my mind that I'll be laying this HB7.5 very soon.

What I did fuck up on was the extraction. I couldn't think of a way to get her alone. I wasn't really worried about it before I went, because I didn't plan on joining a big group of her friends. I should have been better prepared. It showed me that I still have much to learn. Either way, I know for sure that she's not going anywhere so the probability of sex is great.

P.S. So I know that this girl is going to be CRAZY in bed. I just know it. If you met a girl that just blew your mind in bed every session, how long would you stick with her??

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EVERYDAY homeboy