| I met this girl 2 weeks ago. She works as an "edecan" (i don't know how to call it in english.. is like a cheerleader but not in a team, but in an enterprise like iusacell etc) of a cell phone company, she was a solid HB 8.
So, i came in to the store where she was talking to some guys, i totally ignored her; i was looking for a cell phone which i couldn't find in other stores so i started talking to other girl who was there. While she was searching the phone, this HB came to me asking if she could help me in anything, i think she has to do that everytime a person come in so i just said "no tnx", and continued talking to the other girl.
I remember i said this girl that i was looking for the phone all the morning and couldn't find it; also in other store they wanted to sell me a different model which i didn't want, she asked me if the phone was soo amazing to want it so much, i answered that it wasn't about how amazing it was, but the point of it.. after all, i wanted the phone i was looking for, not the phone they wanted to sell me.
When i said that, the HB came to me and said "hey, a man that knows what he wants.." so i said "yeah i like to get what i want".
After this, i ignored her again. The other girl told me that they would look for the phone in other stores, that it could take some time so i decided to chill.. I asked if she had an accessory for my sony ericsson, and she told me that the HB was the one who sold the accessories. So i asked her about it and she took my phone and said "yeah come with me ill show 'em to you".
When we got there, i sat and she began to ask me about the picture i had on my phone (i have this picture with an expo car) and we began chatting about it, i showed her other pictures with mustangs and that stuff (btw when i was showing her those pictures she saw photos of me with other girls there), she started to ask me about my profession, so i told her im a translator and bla bla. Then she asked me about my age, girlfriends, etc. I said her that i don't like long-time relationships because i prefer to hang out with my girl friends and have a good time without having someone pressing you, or trying to stop you from going out with them.. which is true btw. She told me that she was the same, that she wasn't looking for a boyfriend and started to tell me some stories to validate that position.
In 2 of 6 times When she said we had things in common i was like "hey cool give me five" and she did it we had a good time. after that i said her if she would like to go out and have fun other time she said yes, asked for my phone then call me so i could register hers. We said goodbye and that's was all.
After 5 days (on monday) i texted her, i told her i was going to a mall to get some things but wouldn't like to go alone so i asked her if she would like to go with me.
She said she drank a lot and wasn't feeling very good so she couldn't go, so i told her no problem i would get another girl to go with me. After some messages she told me that she would like us to go out so she could introduce me to her cousin. I told her it would be nice but no. She started laughing saying "that's rude.. why you don't like girls???? hahaha" and i answered "no, im gay. haha obviously i do but i told YOU to go out with me, not to your cousin, maybe other time ill make a party so you can bring her and introduce her to a friend" she told me "cool then tell me when u do that party", we said goodbye and that was all.
To tell the truth, i liked her a LOT, but I haven't texted her again i think it will look like i'm pushing it too hard.. and i prefer not seeing her again than beg her to go with me... but i don't what happened, where i messed it up, i have an idea but it will be helpful to have a second thought.
What is your opinion about this?? Where do you think i messed it up? I'd really appreciate your help!
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