so there's this one girl who i've seen twice before at two different parties. The first time we hit it off pretty well, i got a # close. But the second party was on my birthday and I got trashed beyond belief, which was kind of a DLV. She displayed closed body language the whole night, and so my game, sloppy as it was, wasn't going to do me any good that night. How should I approach her the next time i see her?

youll probably have to face this one head on, play it cool at first dont bring it up . . .if its obvious she's thinkin about it and it DLV then squash it with "yeah it was my BD and I knew I was gonna get trashed so I told my b4 hand that he may have to drive me home". Then b4 she can respond ask her "when was the last time you got smashed?" - if she says never, neg her with "so your pretty straight laced" or if you think she's lying call her on it "come on, everybodies gone overboard once or twice".

well, sounds to me you need to do some film review... look at what you did the first night, what worked, what didnt, and what went wrong the second night, then you can figure out what kind of girl she is.

hahahaha.... this sounds like a good one. The proper way I see to approach her is to act as though you are apologetic with your body language. Do not expect to get too far becuase when you showed that DLV, chances are she will remember that moment when she sees you again. You do not need to apologize by saying it, however by using your body language, it will help to show her that you are a good guy and you will have a better chance of "cleaning" things up with her. It may take a bit of time for her to show open body language again. Keep in mind that she will have her defenses up. Good luck man.....

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