yh, I wear womens swim suit to college , there's a pond near the college so it's a good swim aswell, I thought if I wear a swim suit maybe girls will want to come swiming with me. Like hell.

I wear trench coats/slim fit jeans, eyliner sometimes , But I sand out cause the people around me wear all that gangster wear,sports wear so

actually heres a picture of me

also I found some voluntery work were I have to hand leaflets door to door, Its abit like door to door sales that sound alright? it's only twice a week tho.

Oh and In this picture I hadn't yet realised how fucked up my hair was O_O, I normaly straighten my fringe to the side, and have the back of my hair spiked

I'm glad you posted about the hair.

You'll be pulling more girls than me pretty quickly.

Volenteer work doesn't pay does it? It's posting leaflets so you won't really be interacting with people. If it pays it's probably worth it. Personally I would get a job in a shop like Topman or Next. You get discounts and don't forget, women will be buying for their men. That is a great way to open a conversation and just get better at general fluff talk. "Oh it's for your boyfriend, I didn't think it was your colour haha. So how did you two meet?" and crap like that.

This is a brilliant line and you would be amazing how women react "I'm not like most guys, I believe in no sex before marriage and so I'm saving it until I get married." if they ask why answer along the lines of "I believe your virginity should not be taken. It is something special and should be Given to the right person. Nobody will Take my virginity! I will Give it to the woman I love." basically it makes you a target for women. I genuinely was saving it, but once you pop, you really can't stop!!! Damn Pringle advert preachers!

I've got 4 women who still believe they were my first haha. After a while people began to respect my attitude of no sex. Women felt comfortable around me. I had a few girlfriends who I didn't have sex with, but I learnt so much with my fingers and tongue from them!!! Even though guys would talk about me being a virgin and probably say stuff behind my back, I was nailing their girlfriends regularly! Who has the last laugh now fuckers? Haha.

Try it out. It sounds ridiculous, but it works. Women love a challenge.

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This truly sucks!!!

supmag, this post is long, but can possibly change your life....
I really have to butt-in here. Scyth is giving you great advice, and I even appreciate the attention that he has given you based on your desperate situation. I also wish to help, but in a more general sense than Scyth.
Look supmag, you have to forge your own image; do activities that you love and be really good at it, and you will be more confident. Fuck man, you are an attractive guy (I saw your pic); you even started this PUA shit early (I wish I would have started early like that too). You are just intimidated by women because you lack experience and lack the confidence to make moves. That is normal man; trust me, it happens to most guys your age. (LOL, you may think that this is not the case because other guys "get" girls, lol, they are just learning things now too.)
I am all for Scyth's muscle-building and MMA loving tactics (I am into working out and have a black belt in Karate and a brown belt in Judo and Juijitsu). So I know why he is giving you that advice because that stuff makes a person much more confident. However, this mentality (and those activities) is (or are) not for everyone. The best advice that I can give you is that you need to do activities that you love, that you hold a passion for; whatever it is (chess, gaming, shopping, dancing, painting, swimming, working out, etc.), women will love that you are into it. Talk about that to women and they will notice how you glow because you are talking about it. And be interesting, making them laugh about crap. Talking to women is not serious at all; men just make a big deal about it because of lack of experience.
And Scyth, you have so much experience in women (I do too), so you know more than well that you do not need to hide your intentions to get what you want with. You do not need to act like you do not want to have sex with them. You do not need to act like you only want to be friends with them. Fuck dude, this guy, supmag, wants some pussy. What supmag is doing (Im sure!!!) is that he is not conveying the positive and confident image that you need to seduce women. supmag, for real man, you want pussy, tell that to them. It works! Just make them confortable around you first.
It is all about HOW you say it though. Dont be that creepy or desperate guy who only wants that. She wants it too!! Just build attraction (by being cool--be yourself, you seem cool and dress real nice as your pic shows), make her comfortable with you, then go for what you want. You should read Vin DiCarlo's Attraction Code. It will really transform your life. It will give you a mentality that you will notice that guys, who are good with women, have.
You may be trying to find yourself (ur young, that shit happens), but be patient and you could potentially be very good with women. Get frastrated and it will only be more difficult because women (or girls in your case LOL) notice that shit. Good Luck!!!

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WTF!!!! dude you look like a young version of Enrique Iglesias! What the hell are you talking about your hair being fucked up. LOL. You have some confidence issues, dude! lol. But your potential to be good with women is amazing.
An idea, go to three girls you find cute and tell them (on separate approaches) this, "excuse me, this may sound weird, but while i was waiting for the bus, this random girl comes up to me and tell me that I look like a young version of Enrique Iglesias" (make sure you are smiling and you have good energy)... then chit chat with her, asking her opinion on your look. Then tell her how the girl wanted to take pictures with you and you told her no. That you charge for pics. Say "damn paparazzis" LOL. Laughing and shit. You will notice that this girl will be into you...

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I cant tell you enough how valuable Scyth's specific advice is. He his giving you valuable tools to learn women and to be able to convey yourself to women. Its good stuff, having female friends (only) will give you the advantage to learn about what bull crap women care about; doing weight lifting will give you the confidence to do more in life; hiding your intentions will make women not notice that you are looking for sex.
But all these things will only help if you now how to use these tools and are patient. Granted, learning this take time, like everything else. But there are things that you need to notice, it is only has difficult as you make it. Your mentality and way of being will be your greatest assets. So develop them so that you are more comfortable around women. Im telling you, read Vin Di Carlo's Attraction Code. It is an easy read and you will notice through it that you can do it.

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Oh man thanks alot for the advice guys , and scyth the leafleting thing is more like door to door so I only post it if no one comes out , I have gained alot of confidence in the past few weaks , and sometimes ahot girl comes out and I just make them laugh before leaving , and Lorenzo thanks so much O_O, gave me so much confidence on how I look , man I wish I could meet one of you guys in real life :/

also can you tell me a good perfume or something that is really good, cause the one I have right now you have to fucking hugme to smell it :/

Thanks guys, I was sort of going to get him more confident in himself and then let that confidence shine so that women started opening him. Which would definately happen. Then we would be needing to keep an eye on our own women around him. But that idea is ruined. On to plan B, haha.

Basically mate, you are a good looking guy. Make sure you're clean shaven until about 18 years old, then start playing around with stubble and stuff like that. Facial hair doesn't look manly until it's grown in a while. Young facial hair looks like cute fluff, not good.

Stick with the Celibacy line. It rips appart any walls women may have about you wanting to sleep with them.

In regards to aftershave (perfume is for women) go into Boots and ask for mini sample bottles. You'll be amazed by what you can get! Then use one smell on one wrist, one smell on another, and ask a female!!! It's non threatening and a fair question. Personally I camp it up a bit, or play it a little dumb to be less threatening.

I like Davidoff Cool Water, Armani Le Man, and Millionaire. But aftershaves react with a persons sweat and can change scent, so check with a woman.

In regards to aftershave, you will acclimatise to it, but to other people they can still smell it as if you've just put it on.

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About the cologne (perfume is for girls lol), I use Rochas for men. It is similar to the one that u use because I hav to get close for the girl to smell it. And that is cool with me because it gives me an excuse to get them close to me lolz. It works ecerytime and thy usually love my soft smell. If u want one that smells good and has a longer range and duration, I recommend Chrome. It comes in a silver and blue bottle and is really good. My brother uses it, and I prefer a unique subtle smell, so that's why I don't use that one too.

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Just though, spot your aftershave!

Different aftershave for a different spot, or situation.

In college use something more subtle. When clubbing, go for a stronger smell so that when you walk past, women will turn their heads just to see who smelt so good.

Don't pour it on. Go subtle in college and at social/casual meet ups, like hanging with your mates.

You don't want to meet up with me bro. You'd be scared I was going to mug you. I'm 6 feet tall, nearly 17 stone, I've got a scar down my left cheek (from a car crash), and my legs are as big as my best friends waist (only possible thanks to her super skinny waist haha). People are naturally intimidated by me.

But if you still want to meet up that's cool. I'm often working in Manchester. PM me and we'll arrange something. We can go aftershave shopping at the Trafford Centre haha.

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This truly sucks!!!

You guy's are so help full thanks alot. Stiill tho is thier no npl technique or any thing to get rid of aa ?

Good stuff Scyth for helping thiis dude and even offering hanging with him. Thats sweet of u LOL. I also loved your idea of wearing a stronger smell when I am partying. I never thought about it like that. I usually like to get the girl close to me to smell my cologne, which they always love. But I will start to use the stronger cologne.

supmag, to answer your question, there is nothing that can help you delude yourself out of AA, not nlp, not hypnosis, etc. The only thing that would work is actually approaching. It really is not that tough. At first you may think that it is so intimidating. LOL. As if everyone is looking at your every move. Just do it! You will notice that after a while it becomes extremely easy. Start small, just go up to girls and talk with them about anything that YOU want to talk about. Just chit chat, be fun and relaxed, be strong and loud (enough to be heard). Do that for like two weeks and talk to like 30-50 girls. When you start to notice that talking to girls is not tough (which you WILL notice), then start flirting with them. Keep in mind one thing: the worse that can happen is that you get rejected and you do not get the girl. In those cases, keep in mind that it is her lose (because im sure you will make a girl or girls very happy) and go to the other girl....
And AA is tough for everyone. It never really goes away. Even the most experienced and fearless looking guys have it. It really all goes down to how much you can hide it and be confident enough to be relaxed and go for what you want.
I want you to know these two quote that helps me so much: 1) Cowards dies a thousand deaths, while the brave die but once; and 2) You miss %100 of the shots you do not take, so take the shot.
Im not sure where they are from. But they are powerful enough to help me get off my ass and make the moves that I want.
If you are interested, there are some videos on youtube that I think you would very much enjoy and would help you.

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Lol, I'm doing that every day, It's the hesitation I feel aproaching :/, once I aproach and start talking, I just get thi random confidence boost O_O, but my body is still shaking though :/

After the erlier post I went out, and aproached an 8, she was hot, deffinetly fuckable, amazing body. I talked to her for quite long asociated kino, it's cold in manchester so I said to her here let me warm your hands up she let me and I rubbed her hands xD, I know I'm to nice but awell, never made abeter aproach then this ever!, but again you know what the fuckd up thing is she was sat on her on own at a bustop, what the fuck!, if at the same bustop there was people, I couldn't aproach her, but after I start talking to her alot of people came I didn't give afuck O_O what the fuck is going on here :/, and due to me having to get of the bus early I couldn't get her contact details.

U are doing great man! I love it that you are thinking of going for her contact information. That means that you know that just talking is nothing. You gotta make moves towards seducing her to actually be sarging.
The most important thing that I can tell you is that the anxiousness that you are feeling will go away after enough girls you talk to. Just relax and if you continue talking to women, it will be easier. This is like everything else, to get good, you have to continuously do this and push forward...

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