My questions are unrelated to AA.
Tell me how asking the best way to reject someone, whether i should spank sluts, whether i should ask permission to kiss, (after all this article suggest so, http://www.seductiontuition.com/mystery ... close.html) are related to confidence issues?

And i am a fucking black nigga myself, so how is that racist?
I said "I don't have confidence to start a fight with some massive nigga," Learn to read and remember:
I AM BLACK AND I AM A NIGGA THATS WHAT WE CALL EACH OTHER

So don't pretend you're on any moral high ground calling me racist!

and this is rubbish "if you didn't have AA you could of answered you questions"
what about all those people who don't have AA including me who are unsure what to say or do, not because they lack confidence but because they lack the knowledge!

The problem with some people is they always, ASSUME, assume nothing, and only work on evidence and knowledge. This is a principle of the scientific method.

How was i supposed to know your black? and using that word doesnt help racism anyway but thats a different discussion...

If you dont have AA and you have confidence then you could go out, talk to women and find out most of this yourself.

Kiss Gambits are made for people who are very inexperienced and unconfident.

im not saying you're ARENT confident just that you probably aren't. Post some field reports up if you have no AA. Heck tell me your mindset, i WANT to learn from someone with no AA.

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blondguy,

Having read your posts, I can tell that you built yourself a decent repertoire. You've probably noticed that I praised some of your posts, especially when I felt that there's plenty of overlap between what you wrote and what I planned to write.

Here's where we differ:

1. You give the same advice to everybody. Regardless of WHO is seeking advice, you focus on the situation the poster wrote up and how our generic form of game applies to it.

2. The same advice that you offer to others is the one that you would give to YOURSELF. Meaning, you offer advice as if others have your level of experience, have your socio-economic-cultural standing, have your ability to listen and communicate with others, have your cognitive skills to solve problems, have your ability to assess social situations, etc . . .

Often times, this works. However, in certain situations like this thread, you just offered a 100% correct manual on how to use a GPS to navigate a sailboat to Ko Pha Ngan to a kid who's sitting in his bathtub, fooling around with the compass that he pulled out of a Froot Loops cereal box.


Yes, this is sometimes true but in this case, my intent was far from an 'ass kicking'.

1. I asked that he define and start from step 1. (Not done)
2. I asked that he search k close. (Not done) You offered the basic stuff he would have found and thanked you for it. He doesn't have the desire to "search" as he fears generic crap and yet, he's giddy about the most basic k close advice out there? How much would you like to bet that he won't do any of this within the next 6 months?

The OP threw an online hissy fit over reality. . . and I know you mean well but there's no way you think that he could EVER pull this off:
Every girl he knows is a 'friend'.(and judging by his character here, probably not tight friends at that) How would he pull this off?: He is NOT a flirty guy. If he was, he'd be banging them. So how does he do this?: This is like asking the kid in the bathtub to make it clear that he's really the captain of a ship.

To others reading:

1. Laugh. . . It's OK. The OP can't see you or hear you. I know that this thread borders pity & humor but believe me, it's far better for YOU to swing towards humor.
2. It's funny because there's a bit of the OP in ALL OF US. Whether it's for pick up, school, career, etc . . . It's funny because we can all relate to it. Go ahead and laugh . . . what we're doing is laughing at ourselves.
3. Then start from STEP ONE.

You weren't supposed to know I was black, so don't call me racist until you know I am white. The plain simple reason I'm not out in clubs or bars getting chicks is because I am under 18, I am on a full music and academic scholarship plus I play state soccer so there's really no time, plus my parents would beat my ass if they found out I was searching up this stuff instead of studying. Either way getting into Harvard is more of a priority but I am interested in this stuff

Thankyou once again blondguy, @hobbit, whatever you say mate .

and just to let you know kasabi i did search k close and many of the sites including the one's i linked said you should ask permission first. It's funny how you have assumed so much but know so little.
Out of all the people here you're the only one with a real attitude problem, I know I am terrible at building attraction but unlike you, I would never consider someone who is asking for help inferior, and see fit my role as an experienced pua to put down newbies and pretend I am more worthy and important than them.