I have this sticking point: I do not really know how to befriend men.

I can flirt with girls make fun of them, they all laugh, but as soon as there is a man, I don't really know what to talk about with him/them. I try to show him respect or even compliment him on his "cool clothing style" or something but it doesn't work consistently.

I have only few male friends and most of my friends are in fact girls.

I think the reason is that I used to be into BB and got this "though macho" persona back in the days. I did my best to get rid of it but maybe there is still something in me that I'm not able to see myself. Also the only thing I can really talk with guys about are women..

I think in a video Mystery or Matador talked about a routine where you can teach guys something "cool" to appear to the girls as the "leader of the men" and in the same time befriending them. Can someone point me to a resources for this kind of routines? I couldn't really find it or anything like that..

Thanks in advance.

B.W.