This is an interesting one for you all.

I'm a good looking guy. I am 100% alpha male.

I'm always smiling and know where I'm going in life, which gives me a big step in my stride.

I'm 110kg of gym rat muscle. Yes it really is muscle, I'm not delusional. Its taken me 10 years to get here. I also do mma/cage fighting, so because I'm confident in confrontational situations I have no panic when meeting women.

Being a salesman for the last years and a half has given me reasonable social skills when meeting totally new people. So that is not an issue.

I have 2 problems though! And one of them is really embarrassing!!!

1. I have very few male friends and loads of women friends.

Guys seem intimidated having me around, and women just want to have a long term relationship, which is VERY bad. So sarging is really hard to do when you have women out with you. That's problem number 1.

Problem number 2 is the embarrassing one.

I can NEVER tell when a girl likes me. I'm beyond oblivious to it!!! For example...
I was in a club walking back from the toilets and this really sexy woman came over and said her friend thought I was really hot. I said thank you but was too distracted by her beautiful eyes to look for her possibly ugly (or possibly male) friend. Then she said "I think shes right." Again I just said my thank you then I got back to my friends at the bar.

It wasn't until I was driving back home, 2 hours later, that I thought "Hey, I wonder if that girl was coming on to me......?"

Yes it really is that bad. I've had women open me then after half an hour chatting they've said "Are you interested or not?" to which I respond, "Of course I'm interested, I'm fascinated by everything you're saying." Which either gets me slapped or they say "I mean interested in me. Do you want to F**K me?"

I really am that bad.


PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!

I had the same problem, the one when you realise you should have done something. Just pull the trigger. It's a trial and error thing;)

problem 1 = not a problem

women are amazingly helpfull to sarge with.

firstly you come across less intimidating, maybe not to the men but im more interested in women anyway lol

secondly it gives the illusion that you come preselected which is good

thirdly, and judging fom your post youve noticed this , women will find it much easier to open YOU

fourthly once you have opened a set and you have women already around you women may start to feel jealous/see you as a challenge / not a threat so the bitch shield should fall easily.

and finally your female friends will be able to brag about you and have it come across in a indescreet way.

this is known as using a pivot by the way.

problem 2 = easily solved

you can either

A) learn up about IOI's. just spend 60 mins memorizing a list of IOI's to be looking for whilst talking

or B) assume that women are alreasy attracted to you and that everything she does is an IOI. im not sure where this idea came from ( maybe gunwitch but dont quote me on it )

hope this has helped mate and happy sarging !!!!!

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Thanks lads.

I'll go for the IOI study and learn option.

I'm used to being opened by women, but am just oblivious. I keep thinking it's just good conversation. At least knowing what to look for will help.

Nice one.

wow dude that stuffs unbelievable.

first of all if a girl tells u ur hot. IT MEANS UR HOT.

it means almost all girls will think ur host. 99/100

if a girl eva talks to you at a club, she likes you. wake up dude, these girls arnt talking to you coz they want to be friendly. THEY LIKE YOU.

if a girl smiles at you. she likes you. if she bumps you she likes. u think im crazy? think about it, would u ever smile at an unattractive chick when clubbing? unlikely. would u ever bump an unattractive chick? would u ever approach one if u didnt like her?

When a chicks hot shes hot. means all guys think shes hot. and pretty much the same other way around.

soo next time your out, and a girl engages you. SHE WANTS YOU. u have all the power, the girls the one nervous, u get to chill

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dude if you are hot just take them all to your creep. Blockbuster night, wine and cheese and. have fun.

Scyth

dude enough with the validation bollox, common sense if a girl speaks to you she is interested, you just want to post and boast about it that you think you are "hot stuff"

"you have problems cus your only friends are female"...? if you think that is a problem then i feel sorry for every girl that gets with you

the most likely issue is your probably too drunk to tell whats going on and have AA

you might have everyone fooled but not me which is why i called you out on your BS on my local lair. You are full of shit, and you don't need a forum for picking up chicks for validation.

You're like a guy going to a cancer ward complaining about having overdue bills to pay having just found you DONT have cancer

you are full of shit dude, get over sucking yourself

i have a friend who can walk into a club and get a IOI off every girl, hes really tall 6ft 5inc, amazing style, tattoos, piercings, good smile, good looking

i was his wing, and he admits that he has AA and does not know what to do...you in the same categorie as him but you are a bellend is the difference

If you were getting laid half as much as you 'subtley imply', you wouldn't do any of this insecure validation shite.

im average looking, and work hard at this stuff, you and your Bullshit problems really insult my hardwork

if i had your so called "looks" "style", "100%alphaness"

i wouldnt even post about Pickup, id be a natural who would be modest and keep things to himself. You must be really fucking bad with chicks if you've got that much going for you and still need to go on a forum about how to pick up chicks...

i am done!

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