Love:
1) How far into the relationship should we use it?
2) how do you bring it up?

*ive been in a relationship for 6 weeks
*both virgins

Not before you've had sex. It can come across as almost a sort of bribe.

But apart from that- take the initiative. If you love her, tell her. Make it special, and make it mean something. Don't do it for personal gain.

Wait at least 3 months

All depends on your relationship. Might be appropriate already, or you may want to wait a good while longer. But if you feel that way, share it. Aside from Taffy's point, I'd avoid the L-word in bed. Wouldn't want to get something so pristine dirty Jokes aside though, if you use it in the sack, you're not really getting your message across.

Telling a person that you love them doesn't have a time limit.. and you'd have to be crazy to think so..
But it this way - if you're in a relationship for months - then finally you both have sex, it might change the way you feel about her - could be better.. could be worse.
Hell, you might hate the person after 3 months.

There is a fine balance between saying it too early - because it makes you sound eager - and willing to bend over backwards for someone you may not have known for a great deal of time.
Say it too late (or not at all) and she'll begin to question where the relationship is headed towards without some stronger bond between you two.

Keep this in mind - you can't fully love someone until you know all the good and bad personal traits the individual has. Explore eachother physically and spiritually, then if you are both comfortable being in love - great!

If not - then you can safely say you dodged the bullet by saying "I love you" to a complete, fridged psycopath.

Love can be a cruel mistress.. handle with care.

-Illusionist

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"They were right when they said "just be yourself" they just never told you what "self" to be.." - Gunwitch

The point in the relationship when you should use the "L" word is when you are slipping a ring on her finger.