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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 9:31 am 
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I know this girl in class like me, but I don't know if it's love or lust.

At one point I saw in my peripheral vision her staring at me for more than 10 seconds, Finding any excuse to touch me (wanting to play fighting, petting my hair and saying how soft it is, asking me if I have sex, if I have a girlfriend, and if I'm gay, asking me if I can check to see if there is anything on her butt. And there is a guy that sits in between us, but she would skip him and come to me with these IOIs.

From a guys perspective, these are indicators of lust....How how can I know for sure? Is there any technique I can use to find out?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 9:46 am 
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Dude....

Really.

Either you're a troll, or you need to learn the first thing about pick up before posting on these forums.

She's into you. Quit being a pussy and close.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 10:05 am 
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Yes I know she's into me, but idk if it's love or lust. Does she want to have sex or a relationship?

I'm not into a commitment yet because there are girls in other classes that likes me as well. Is there a way to get into the FWB zone?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 12:02 pm 
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It all starts with lust. Love has to be built over time.

You're putting the horse before the carriage. You haven't even asked her out yet, and you're already worried she's getting too clingy. Why not go on a date and figure out the details later? What if it turns out you two aren't even compatible, then you've worried about all this possible commitment crap and it doesn't matter.

In dating, you have to take things as they come and then deal with them, and just believe that you will be able to handle whatever happens, no matter what it is. If you try to theorize every possible outcome, you'll drive yourself nuts and psyche yourself out before you ever try anything.


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 26, 2010 11:25 pm 
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It all starts with lust. Love has to be built over time.

You're putting the horse before the carriage. You haven't even asked her out yet, and you're already worried she's getting too clingy. Why not go on a date and figure out the details later? What if it turns out you two aren't even compatible, then you've worried about all this possible commitment crap and it doesn't matter.

In dating, you have to take things as they come and then deal with them, and just believe that you will be able to handle whatever happens, no matter what it is. If you try to theorize every possible outcome, you'll drive yourself nuts and psyche yourself out before you ever try anything.
So I'm going to ask her on a date to find out if she just want to have sex or a relationship? I only need to know one thing, not "theorizing every possible outcome" -___-


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PostPosted: Sat Nov 27, 2010 12:11 pm 
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:)
http://www.timenets.com


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lol?


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