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Alphas don't act uninterested. Alphas act human. They act careless in other areas but not in your situation. In fact, an alpha in your situation would have already gotten that girl's number.
Look, you fucked up by not getting her phone number. That's history, you learned from your mistake. Now I want YOU to stop giving a shit about her and her IOI as well. Just when you see her next time...be like, "Hey you're that one girl..we met before." She'll say a few things back and then just take out your phone and point it at her heart so that she can grab it and say, "Put your number in." If you don't have a phone, get out a pen and tell her to write her phone number on your hand.
If she asks, "Why do you need my number?" Just say, "You seem like a cool girl" If then says, "Yeah and?" Say, "We rarely see each other. Look, if it bothers you then no biggie. Take care." Or if she comes up with some excuse just say, "Trust me, it's ok." Then if she gives you another excuse and you SENSE that it's fake for real, say, "You don't have to lie you know." It's pretty easy to tell when people are lying.
Again, golden advice!
to ShadoWSlash: you met this girl in college and you ... did what? Brought your hammer and nails and ...'build attraction'? Look man, this 'out of the book' material should be seen as a guideline. People are people, woman are woman. You cant read minds, you cant tell people what to do or think.
You can try and manipulate, gently pushing people into a certain direction, but you never know for sure if they will keep on track. Therefor, you cant say that 'you was building attraction'. Because, lets face it, you suddenly fell 'out of IOI's' and here you are.
I am trying to make you clear that it is alright to try PU techniques to push people into a certain direction, but never fall into the mental prison of somebody else his head. dont try to find out what is going on in peoples head, if they like you or not. There is no safe way of knowing if a person likes you or not. If you want to know for sure, you need balls and you need to confront.
Nyseto is right: a true man, alpha or not, would already have gotten the number. You know why? because he doesnt wonder if she likes him or not, he finds out. He goes for what he wants. Point.
Next time you see her: ask her number because you want to hang out together. You can take your phone and point it to her heart. hell, you can point the damn thing anywhere, except perhaps her crotch. And your crotch, as that would be even weirder. The point is: a true man goes for what he wants. A true man still stands if he doesnt get what he wants. A true man still stands if he gets crap over himself.
ciao!
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