I have tried again and again and have failed, Her best freind is always and I mean always with her, and she son't let me talk to my target O_O, my target is very very social, and hangs out with ALOT of boys, looks like a chalenge so i'm taking it .

This girl is also not very comfortable around me, she is in my media class , she is comfortable with everyone ! apart from me O_O, I don't know what sort of shit her freinds are feeding her about me, but I can't think of agame plan so anyone ? please help ?

Oh and She put me in the freinds zone cause of a stupid mistake I made :/ , but since she is imaturre it shouldn't be hard to get out right?

Just be like, "I need to borrow your friend for a few minutes" while grabbing your target by her hand. If her best friend says, "No." Then say, "Why not?" If her best friend says, "Because I can't trust you" or something along those lines, then say, "Don't worry, I'm not some rapist." If she keeps on insisting with no, tell her, "Look, I don't know what your problem is. You act as if you are her mother and if I had a friend like that not giving me the right to talk to other people, I would be very irritated and the last thing I need is for you to talk behind my back." And then most likely she will blab on where you can cut her off and say, "Look. I'm not here to argue anymore. It was nice meeting the both of you, take care." And walk off. This is not about demonstrating your anger. This is about demonstrating that you're a direct alpha male because that is what an alpha male does. He confronts and doesn't back down. He doesn't get upset, he just sees things with logic. The key to saying all of that is with the right body language. Stand tall, and look at her forehead (shows that you are superior to her and don't have to look into her eyes.) Look relaxed, and keep your tone chill, but yet resonant. When I say things like these, I typically point my middle finger at them as if I'm pointing a gun at them (I don't flip them off).

At that point you show that you don't care and you also put her in her place and it may make your target angry for putting her friend into her place but it will make her think, "Damn, he's pretty strong."

I'm more of a direct guy. If I sense something is wrong, I let people know about it and confront. I don't hide and ignore it like a pussy. I search for answers and jump to conclusions because I don't like to waste my time having to wonder what the hell is going on. That's what being a real man is all about. Who the hell do these girls think they are trying to work their bullshit and cockblocking guys. I've had this happen so many times where they would even make shit up behind my back and without fighting or calling them any names, I would put them in their place putting their little minds to work and getting my fucking respect.

I like you're way of thinking , you see the thing is I have known this girl for a while since she goes to the same class as me O_O, and also my fucking aa has yet to go away :/, apparently it will go with time as I am only 16 and so is this girl.

But I really love you're way of thinkning

anymore advice will be really apreciated.

16 year old girls are pretty insecure and don't know what they want. In fact, most are more likely to give you attitude and spazz out about you being a stalker/creeper or whatever not from my experience, but the way other guys act with them. I'm 18 and very daring. I grab girls, I touch them, I just pull off all sorts of things but I do it without caring/chasing. It really makes you stand out among all the other guys in school. Girls tell me how I'm very different from most guys, how I make them blush, etc.

Get yourself an attitude and confront girls in high school. I have all sorts of cocky responses that some even tell me that I'm impossible. Since I play football and I'm buff, a girl told me, "Well a chunk of meat like you shouldn't say something like that." And I said, "Which chunk of meat are you talking about? You know, you shouldn't bite more than you can chew."

Remember, being like that with girls works under certain circumstances. You can't be like that with every girl on campus. Most of the time, I'm cool and relaxed (I don't try to pull much shit on girls). I only pull off things on girls that I have fun with and enjoy being around me.

With girls that give me nasty attitudes and to other guys in general, I don't fight or call them ANY names such as bitch, slut, cunt, etc. Instead I show them up with words that are put in a logical sense. I judge them, make bad assumptions about them, I basically tell them their failures and what their life is really like. I say things like:

-"Who the shit do you think you are?"
-"I don't kiss ass to you just because of your looks like every other guy does"
-"You do this with every guy so you can always be in control and not give a shit"
-"You're just a drop in the ocean for me."
-"Nice manners by the way."
-"Whatever floats your boat."
-"Whatever fits your tits."
-"You're wasting my time, bye."
-"You are insecure, this is why every guy treats you bad."
-"You can't play mind games with me hun. I've met plenty of girls like you."
-"You're so superficial. You're one of those girls that spends a shit load of time in front of the mirror and has a shit personality."
-"Get out of my face, I'm done talking to you."
-"You don't have to lie, it's ok."
-"It's ok."
-"Umm, so what's your point?"
-"You don't and won't have the opportunity to know me."

With the bitchy/sexy girls in high school, cussing works like a charm. Saying shit, and fuck, etc. while you talk to them demonstrates power and strength. But this is only true with the bitchy girls in HS and college, but after college, cussing will make you look bad because these bitches are going to become more mature sooner or later so that stuff won't work in clubs and bars. Remember though, only confront if you get attitude from these bitchy girls. It's also the type of guy you are. I'm generally the type of, "You don't play games with me." So in general, I don't have to confront anyone. Just walk around in HS as if you're the shit and you're tough but WITHOUT having an attitude. A real man doesn't start shit, he handles the shit. So when people give you crap, then that's when you GIVE them the attitude and put them in their place.

Most guys in high school are pussies. They're all a bunch of little sissies that act nice and suck up to girls. I've confronted them too. One guy around these girls told me, "Get out of here." And I said, "Ok man, what are you going to do? Get me out of here then." He then said, "I'll beat your ass if you don't." I said, "Listen to me. Who are you depending on? These teachers and administrators? (while moving my index finger in circles about my head). You know I'm not going to fight here and get suspended." Then I pointed and tapped at my wrist saying, "Just give me time and location and we'll solve it right there." After that, he shut his ass up.

Now there is another reason why most guys in high school are pussies. Most of them act like drama queens and do all sorts of flying bullshits with their hands through the air as if they're gay or something. Keep your tone very relaxed, keep your eyes relaxed, don't make fast movements, sit straight with your arms on your lap and your hands open or letting your hands dangle from your wrists on things. Take up space. While I'm sitting and talking, I usually keep one arm on my waist or on something else or on my lap. Don't ever cross your legs, keep them spread open. When you talk to a girl, give her that impression of, "I'm so relaxed that you deserve to get down and suck it." When they try to get your attention, turn your head slowly towards them. Look in their eyes, look at their LIPS, and yes, look at their boobs as well. Some may ask you what you're looking at. Just say, "I'm looking at your tits." 1.) You're being honest, you're not going into denial 2.) The girl may be testing you out b/c she already knows you're staring at her boobs.

And when girls try to put you down and stuff, keep your cool and stay relaxed. Do NOT react. Some girls try to bring up sexual things to make me uncomfortable. I take that as a challenge so I bring up other even MORE sexual things to make them feel uncomfortable. A girl told me, "I bet you masterbate everyday." I said, "Not much now since girls do it for me but I used to." She began to laugh and still insisted on trying to make me uncomfortable and I said, "Well you know..it's something normal. I mean, you finger yourself and rub your clit when you get all wet and stuff." And at that point she shut her mouth up and thought, "Wow, this guy is really something." Just be honest with people, be straightforward with them. Don't make up lies (you could make up a few for fun purposes when flirting) but just be honest. Real men aren't bullshitters.

Things to keep in mind: Believe you're tough that no one fucks with you and that you're the shit (you have to show it too through the way you walk, etc. but don't overdo it to the point that you look like a joke). Do not bullshit around people and start crap with them because at that point, YOU'RE the pussy. Be cool with everyone unless they give you attitude; that's when you can put them in their place. Have fun, laugh, show that you're human, but please don't make it look gay like most guys do.

Wow That really helped! thanks so much man . I want to be like that :/ Well I am really really relaxed, and I do walk around like i'm the shit. The thing is I feel reall hesitation talking to girls, but once I start talking to a girl I make sure she dosn't leave unintrested in me.

I am a beginer at this, I started at the age of 14 O_O , then I stopped and did psychology for ayear and then now I'm back into gaming, even though I say that my aproach anxiety is just on a different level, it won't let me do shit!, I can talk to random people, buit I feel soooooo hesitant aproaching them

Make assumptions man. Look at what they're wearing, just say some crazy shit. Imagine approaching hideous girls, it should make it very easy for you to talk.

ok, thanks I shall try that, if it fails I will pm you. btw you got msn or something so I can explain my situation?

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won't work

@nyseto.
I'm guessing you live in the usa, in Australia that attitude wouldn't last for a minute.
The problem with that is that in Australia everyone gives everyone shit ALL the time but as a sort of fun way to be friendly. Like "what's up ya fat bastard" and your friend will reply with a counter insult, all in good spirit.
The few people who try to act tough are sorted out by constant jokes directed to them, and if they threaten anyone they will just seem like a dick.

I think the best attitude is to take jokes but be quick witted enough to get someone back.
Just a thought.

Yh I live in the uk, That sort of attitude will get me ounched in the face O_O, but who gives afuck might aswell go for it, everyones gonna die eventually.