Okay so let me tell you a lil about my relation ship . so i been going out with my girlfriend (HB9) this year for 3 months. this is the 2nd time we go out. last year we broke up, and this year we gave it another chance. So she says she loves me and all this things. in one case, i broke up with and she got on her knees and ask me out.


Problem = so she haves a X boyfriend that she really gets along with, not only that, her brother is best friend with hem. He manage to get along with my girlfriends mom, and the x boyfriend got kick out from hes house , and now is living in her house. I really don't feel okay with this. i know for a fact that he the steal loves her. and so in a way i feel Jealous? but if i tell her how i feel , i know there is going to be drama . not only that i think i have power to make sure he don't stay there. making her kick hem out? . but he really haven't give me a reason why not to trust hem. i just don't like that idea of my girlfriend been alone there sometimes with hes x boy friend?

i am 17 shes 16 and her x boyfriend 17 . sorry for bad grammar.

i need some of you guys opinions. and what should i do?

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You have to find out if she still has thoughs feelings for him if so you might have a problem. But he still is her bros friend so you cant really start anything if you have no evidence. You could try to set somthing up where you have a friend be like your eyes when the two of them are together and u can see if shes just being friendly or somthing more.


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Don't worry about it.I say that because there is nothing you can do about it, if shes going to cheat shes going to cheat. If it's too much to bear, leave her and find someone else. The only thing you can do is maintain your game. Why should you worry about her ex when shes with you? If she wanted to be with her ex she would be, but shes not, that has to tell you something.

agree and disagree with this.


if she wants to cheat she willl bottom line....YES

if she doesn't want to cheat it doesnt mean she wont get carried away and hav eit happen and then be like "oh fuk i wish i hadnt done that"

if you're anything like me then one slip up is one too many and in that one mistake our whole future is ruined......

and any guys decent at pick up will know you can def fuk a chick w a bf, fiancee or married so...... yah.

and lastly its very RARE that I am alone at my place with an ex, bf or not on her end or gf or not on mine something almost ALWAYS happens... its so easy to slip up with exes ... even if you DONT want to be with them anymore.... emtoions and feelings push it ... i highly doubt nothin will happen with them living together.. just saying

how funny would it be if hes posting in a diff forum here "so my ex has this bf but now im living with her.. how do i..."

haha

good luck... honestly its gonna drive you nuts tho.. its NOT worth the headache in the end.....

my gf's and i usually make a no exes rule that we BOTH follow..... maybe it SHOULDNT be needed but sometimes its jsut best.. but sometimes it dosnt help if one or both arent intending to follow it.... ...

I would spend A LOT more time with her. And with that time, you can pull off more romantic things on her (to get into her life) and take her to parties where you can talk/flirt with other girls to ensure that she has a reason to get jealous as well. Don't act like you don't care because you do. Act like you don't care IF her ex-boyfriend gets her back. But for now...give her a good time, use opportunities at your advantage to make her jealous too...

tank you all for given me your opinion. it means a lot to me.









(I would spend A LOT more time with her. And with that time, you can pull off more romantic things on her (to get into her life) and take her to parties where you can talk/flirt with other girls to ensure that she has a reason to get jealous as well. Don't act like you don't care because you do. Act like you don't care IF her ex-boyfriend gets her back. But for now...give her a good time, use opportunities at your advantage to make her jealous too...)



i think you are rite. i am taking your advice. tank you alll mates

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