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Well I never put this stuff to work. So after my one-tis told me she wants me back I decided to see what girls i could get before I decide. Well theres this very very shy 8.0 who i want so bad cause she's sweet beyond compare which is one thing that drives me nuts aboult certain girls. Idk how to approach this cause sometimes she ignores me. I made a afc mistake by saying how pretty she was. Were both juniors in HS i have 2 classes with her and i can tell she sorta likes me but dont know how to build on it
She is an HB8 so do not use any hardcore negs. You can do light negs though, just stupid, obvious little things that make her laugh. don't do anything serious, just obvious "i am playful" negs. She gets an answer wrong in class, while sitting next to her nudge her and whisper "good job" with a smile. If you aren't sittng near her, tryto sit so you are across from her, or in her line of vision. Make EC (eye contact) and when she notices that you are giving her attention, just do a little smile. Not just with your mouth, but with your eyes. Open em up, smile, show some teeth. She will lookaway first but u gotta establish that "I am man. I will not hurt you." kind of role. Do this for a little while.
Approaching- ask her what homework was later that day. Bring up on how that assignment was stupid or fun. Get her opinion on the class. She will open up if you open up to her and show her you aren't as intimidating as you seem. Do some screening once you built that comfort. "what do you want to be when you grow up?" is a good one. Beware, only pull this off when you are on a talking basis with her. That was a bad AFC move talkin about her looks. But it is not as bad because she is an 8, not a 10. If it were a 10 you said that to, you chances would have been burned in a second. Just work on EC for a week or so, and little side convos, work into it. Do not just approach her and start talking, this isn't the movies kid. Yougotta build up to it. Take your time, go slow, ya know?
Talk to her friends too. make her jealous. Prove to her friends that you are cool and social and your chances will drastically increase. Hope this helps. -Rye