so after alot of staring from her and me i finally got to know this girl at my college. we had a very good tone when we were talking and she was smiling alot. and since
that time everytime she walked passed me with her friend i said hello and smiled
and she also smiled and said hello in a very flirty way.

and i was hoping i could talk to her more by meeting her when shes alone because i
feel its kinda hard when shes with her friend to start a random conversation+ since i just met her.

so in class i walked by her and i said hi and she didnt respond and looked down at the floor .now this for me felt pretty damn ridicolous cuz im 100% sure she was interested in me by the way she was smiling and saying hello to me all the other times.

what i think maybe happened is in an earlier class i didnt see her but she maybe saw me and then she thought i ignored her? this not fact but just a theory because something like this has happened earlier with me with other girls. they mistake me ignoring them and they become pissed.

i even saw her in the cafeteria with her friends 1 feet away im looking at her she completey ignores.

now i know this is a bagatelle but my mind went what the fuck. from smiling and saying hello all the time to ignoring me completely? i can see that this girl is not the type to play games so thats not the reason why shes ignoring me. it a chance she was looking at me and i didnt notice her and she thought i ignored her and got pissed hence "sensitive girl". or shes just not interested cuz i seem like a AFC but why would she then in a matter of couple of days go from hi and smiles to completely ignore.

Smiling and saying hello to a girl is not enough to get her. She probably did like you. Maybe she wants you to make a move and is thus playing hard to get. It's all about how you put your frame.

Just assume she likes you but that she's shy. Damn, what the hell am I saying?

You will know if you gather your courage and walk up to her and actualy start talking to her!

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hey i know its not enough to get a girl by saying hi and smiling. and i have just talked to her once...

and ure completely right things will be answered when i walk up to her and start talking. just will be wierd considering she completely ignored me and looked away when i said hi. i mean starting a conversation is hard when the person doesnt respond to your hi and looks away :p.

but ur right the only way i can find out is by talking to her and i aint no bitch i will throw my self at her and jsut start talking so she doesnt stand a chance to ignore me.
im 100% sure she doesnt play hard to get. shy? yes but not that shy.

just wierd that she went 180 from smilin and saying hi to complete ignore. does anyone have experienced something like this?

Realy 100% sure she isnt playing hard to get?

Is she ignoring you or shy? It's up to you to decide. It's just how you put your frame. If you think she's shy she is.

So, next time you see her and she "ignores" you, then go to her and say something like "you I know I realy find it cute that you're too shy to talk to me/playing hard to get." It doesn't matter if she realy is shy or playing hard to get or not, just by saying so, you're making it real, and she will qualify perhaps.

2 possible responses:

1) she laughs and blushes a bit. She starts talking with you. You're sure the game is on.
2) she acts aloof.

When she acts aloof, don't let it touch you. Maybe she is just testing you (aka playing hard to get). Don't be needy (= not cool), but act like she is acting very happy to you. Be persistent ( = sexy. Is not the same as needy). Later, talk with her again. Chances are increased that she will open up. If she still acts uninterested then don't put any energy in this girl and move on to the next.

Well yeah I've been in situations like this a lot and still have them. It's when I turn a girl on, but later when I am too tired, too lazy or not uber interested to talk to her, or when she sees me flirting with other girls, that she loses attraction (or fakes it = playing hard to get) and thus kind of react the same way.
As long as you will talk to her as you said you would you will be fine.

Succes!

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thanks