about a week ago i was talking to one of my girlfriends and she mentioned that she was real buzy with school and work..i told her that she needs a study break and that one of my friends is throwing a party for halloween and it be a great chance for her to put away the books and come hav some fun and that we'll chill together. I've done this with her before, same "you need a study break" routine and its worked out fine and we've gone out and had a great time.

whats a good way of bringing it up again without sounding desperate or needy of her company?

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Is it a costume party?

If it's a costume party say "So what costume are you going to wear at the party?"

If not then im not sure. Maybe ask her when it's closer to holloween?

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Ya it is a costume party, and shes familiar with my group, like i said, she's been around us before and she's had a great time

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Maybe tell her to go to the party instead of asking her to go. Be alpha with some C/F and let her know what's up and what's going to be fun. You got this no problem.

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right on..last time i saw her i negged her a lilttle bit and she responded pretty well. one question i got for you guys, in process of changing yourself to be more alpha, how do respond to others reacting to this new "alpha you?" meaning, if you start joking around, and being C/F after being such a beta and an AFC, some girls who already know you are taken aback of this new personality.

For example, I have this one old friend of mine who I'm fairly close with but see very often..recently i spoke with her and i was being very alpha-ish and C/F by joking around and such, but it didnt seem that she was confused and was startled somehow. My concern is, do they have any reservations or resistance of accepting this new "alpha male?" Seems as though think that this change is a false persona and they see through it? Should i be offended by this in front of them? Any help would be greatly appreciated..



Also thinking of doing the routine by

Hey fellas:


this tip is for girls you already know.. or are on a day 2 with and havent kiss closed yet...

FYI: Kiss close ups the probability u will not enter the LJBF zone...


sometime through out the night... after you have established some kino... and are walking beside her holding hands;


STOP;

turn her body towards yours:

put your hands on her waist:

say, "this is so we cant just be friends"

and give her a kiss....

say, "we were getting along so well and i didnt want to risk labeling you as just a friend, and now i know we are more than friends"

then run one hand through her hair and kiss her again before she can say anything...


NO MORE LJBF zone


would this be worth a shot on her as well?


i got some more questions, but ill wait to hear back

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