Well it was a small thing that started in the summer. I was really picking up momentum through PUA from earlier in the year and I contacted this girl I made out with in a (highschool) club. We went out on about 8 dates, alot of them turned into hookups, then I asked her out. This was roughly a month and a half before I left for college. We hung out everyday at college, had a great summer meeting up like everyday, etc.

Now Im at college, 45 minutes away, and we've been going out for 4 months. I havent even broached the topic of sex yet. I havent even wanted to meet her parents. I think this is because I feel stuck in the relationship and I want to get out, and I feel like both of these things would only make me more stuck in the relationship. Im at a university now, with thousands of others, and I feel like it is a time for me to be single and pick up momentum again, before I fall behind the 8-ball of others.

Lately she has only been coming down once every 2 weeks, and honestly, seeing a high school girlfriend once every 2 weeks for me while being in college is just kind of depressing. I think Im entering depression - perhaps because of college, or maybe because Im unable to be the person who I really want to be (single and mingling) because Im in a relationship.

Maybe Im just taking PUA too far being only 18 years old and I should really just let my relationship grow. But where is it going to go? Shes going off to college next year, that means we'd be LDR + LTR for like the next 5 years. I got into an argument with her last week because I dont talk to her enough, I feel like im making her unhappy because I just dont know if I even want to be in this relationship anymore.

4 months in. should i end it over thanksgiving break? do i even have a legit reason to end it? shes my first real girlfriend..maybe thats contributing to me wanting to continue it.


**then again. i feel like ive never been this close to having sex before. i just want to get it over with. is it wrong to stay in the relationship for that reason? her being 17, i havent met her parents, chance of pregnancy, etc....i cant really just have sex with her and then want to break up. its not even right in the first place.

but who knows? she's giving me 1 bj in this time even though ive pushed for it a few times. am i whipped? have i reverted back to my AFC ways because of this relationship?

2 weeks for me while being in college is just kind of depressing. I think Im entering depression - perhaps because of college, or maybe because Im unable to be the person who I really want to be (single and mingling) because Im in a relationship.

Don't ever let anyone stop you from being the man you want to be. If you want to be singling and mingling, that is what you should be doing, period.

Maybe I'm just taking PUA too far being only 18 years old and I should really just let my relationship grow.

The word relationship should not even be in your vocabulary right now. The only thing that should be growing are the cell numbers in your phone belonging to hot college girls. And there is no such thing as taking PUA to far.


Shes going off to college next year, that means we'd be LDR + LTR for like the next 5 years.

No, that means she is going to move on and enjoy being single and wild. You will no longer be on her radar when this day comes, mark my words.


do i even have a legit reason to end it? shes my first real girlfriend..maybe thats contributing to me wanting to continue it.

Her being your first real girlfriend is the main reason why you are dragging this on. Get out their and start having fun, watch how quickly your mind set changes.
And you don't need a 'legit' reason to end it. You are not into it anymore, that is all the reason you need. You make it sound like someone needs to accept your reason for leaving.

Now close your laptop and put your PUA skills to work!

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I'm sorry, but if you've been "going out" with a girl for 4 MONTHS without even BRINGING UP, let alone HAVING sex, then I would say you're not taking PUA FAR ENOUGH.

I would get out there and start actually gaming. Tell this "GF" of yours that you're in college now and you feel like you're closing yourself off socially and not having fun in this "relationship" any more because it's holding you back from having a real college experience. Either it's an OPEN relationship (so you get to game at school without lying), and get to see her when you guys can, or it's dumpsville for little ms prudeberg.

Read some posts on here about raising your social value in college. At college, (like high school) high social value = pussy.

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But you are probably whipped.
No offense to your bitch*, but my hall had 4 girls who were dating their high school sweethearts when they entered college and all 4 had cheated on them spring. I was there to help the hottest one cheat .

Anyway, College is a great place for anyone find out more about themselves, meet new people and get laid. I dont think ill ever see so many nerds hook up with HBs ever again.
I, and Im sure most recent grads would do anything to experience college again. But its only a once in a lifetime experience.

The pure carefree fun loving attitude of the entire college environment in America is seriously one the number wished for life in the world. I currently work in Hong Kong and all my relatives would kill to be away to live for a week in somewhere 10% as fun as Van Wilder

Think about it.
PU teaches how to demonstrate social value because social value is like women viagra. Well college is a place just action packed with social activities and enough value to go around. Nowhere can you ever simply approach a stranger at the quad just to talk, then have friends from your hall, people you met from a party, fundraiser, sports game, class, study sess, computer lab, playing basketball, impromtu NBA2k tourny, club folks etc just happen to walk by every 10 minutes.

But hey maybe your bitch* is like super hot and volunteers her free time reading books to the blind when she's not practicing to be a world class figure skater to impress her overbearing but increasingly rich father. In which case maybe stick with it.

*i mean bitch in the most respectable sense of the word.
Those girlfriends in my hall were desperately depressed too so its normal to be if your "loved one" is so far away.