So I'm not sure if She's Flirting or Just Being Friendly?



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:57 pm 
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I met this girl the two weeks ago on my way to work , she made a comment to me about her coat becoming too warm due to heat from the train's heater. What did I think about it? No idea why she was telling me this. Throughout this conversation, I had made her laugh/giggle and disclose personal information about herself such as family, aspirations, job, and insecurities (such as finding a job post internship...*NOTE* She is a year younger than me and is currently taking an internship. I on otherhand just started the real life working deal).

Today, I met her on the train again. We sat together and ended up talking through Train C again. She ended up mentioning (I did not mention at all) that she was sorry for not replying to my text because she busy (or something to that extent). Again, our talk had little to no pause and was fairly productive.

Problem is, how do I know if she is interested in me? And do you think she just gave me her number (after I inquired for it) and keeps talking to me (I ask her questions as well as she asks me about myself) because she is just a nice person or is genuinely interested? I also found out yesterday that she mentioned she had bought something for her boyfriend

Two days ago, I saw her on the train and was talking with her again. I made a comment to her about my awesome tie that I had on and she pulled a sweater I had on underneath the jacket and said she really loved it. Also, she mentioned to me that she needed a good excuse to get out of work because her boyfriend was paying for a ticket for her to go visit her (He's in a far away state+much older 9 years). But yeah, after talking about that she said she'd see me Monday.

So I saw her on Monday, we had a nice talk again. I tried testing my bounds with her. Moved in to whisper something in her ear, she moved closer to listen to me. I also found out she wasn't going to see her boyfriend due to work reasons.
Also saw her today, she said if I she I was going to be on the train tomorrow. I said yes, and she said 'Ok, good'.

I saw her yesterday and today again. Today, we ran into each other on accident (both ending up in the same train car actually walking into each other) she commented on it saying how weird it was, and I was like, 'its obvious your magnetized towards me' she laughed and said yeaaa right. Anyway, later on she made a comment on how I was the only person she talks to on the train and she's usually doesn't like to talk to anyone in the morning. But yeah, that's about it for today.

Yesterday I ran into her and we had a nice chat, talked about our weekends. And then, when she was leaving she asked if I would be on the train tomorrow...and I said yes , maybe if you're lucky. And as she was leaving, she quickly responded with a surprised look and smile, 'What? No, you mean, if you're lucky!'

What should I do from here? Does she seem like she is flirting too?


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 24, 2010 2:51 am 
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To be honest bro it just seems like she's being friendly.
She gave you her number right ?
If you feel like you stand a chance I say go for it.
And when I say "Go for it" I don't mean spill the guts to her or anything but definitely push the boundaries more beyond just whispering in her ear.
If she's interested she'll most likely comply and if she's loyal to her boyfriend at least instill the idea you're interested in her in her head.

That way you don't have to worry about LJBF'd because you totally switch it up later on or worry about being called creepy and never talking to her again.


If you think she's genuinely cool and don't mind being her friend I say be careful with how you approach this especially if she already said she has a boyfriend.


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