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PostPosted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 8:34 am 
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Hi Everyone

It's 8:22am on day 6 of the challenge, so I'm writing up how day 5 went.

Day 5 started out like a normal Monday. It sucked climbing out of a nice warm bed early in the morning!!! I know you all feel that also.

It was such a busy day that I simply couldn't have sex, masturbate or anything. I finished work, straight to mma, then straight home for loads of food. Quick shower then bed.

It really was that simple.

There were a few really good looking women around Manchester (where I was working) but other than a few really sexy asses, temptation stayed away. Which makes my challenge much better.

The only thing that got to me was when I was thinking about sleeping with my latest exLTR everytime she text me. It's not a bad "got to me", it's a good one. I got butterflies in my stomach thinking how good it feels to be inside her. I'm remembering it now and having those same butterflies. But other than that, no real yearning for sex.

It's only a few hours into day 6 but I really am missing sex quite a bit. Not just from thinking about my ex, but just because I'm a man. Us guys want sex and lots of it. I'm thinking of today as being a mini version of "The Wall" that marathon runners get. If I can make it through today the rest of the week will be easy....I hope.

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what's the fucking point of this?


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what's the fucking point of this?
He wants to save up his load and bust it on some poor girls face.


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what's the fucking point of this?
He wants to save up his load and bust it on some poor girls face.
Sounds more like a case of "I won't be such a chode if I call it celibacy instead of not being able to get some"






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It's about self validation and not validating through women and sex.

If you really think I can't get any, that's fine. Doesn't bother me one bit. If that's the first thought that came to your mind, I'd question my own ability to get some.

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Perhaps this is just my personal issues speaking, but 5 days with no sex is child's play. Even without masturbation I've gone longer without thinking about it...

Not that I haven't actively tried before... I think about two weeks is when I just started getting too antsy to not jerk off.

But 5 days? That's nothing.


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5 days is not quite as easy as I thought it would be.

The 2 week mark is what I worry about. After a while I think the sex drive will diminish so much that I don't think it will be an issue, not having sex.....I hope.

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5 days is not quite as easy as I thought it would be.

The 2 week mark is what I worry about. After a while I think the sex drive will diminish so much that I don't think it will be an issue, not having sex.....I hope.
But what's the POINT of it all?


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The point is to see what extent we feel good about ourselves and validate our existence through sexual gratification.

If after 3 months I feel awful and have no sex drive or whatever, then clearly sexual gratification is a huge part of existence and thus we validate through the opposite sex.

On the other hand, if I feel great, still have a sex drive, and am excited to get back into the game, it simply means that women are minimal in validation, but are a supplement to feeling good.

I've even been warned that I'll want to show my love more passionately than ever. Which is an even more interesting outcome! Will I be begging to get married and all that?

I'm unsure of what the outcome will be.

It's just as much an experiment as a challenge.

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Will I be begging to get married and all that?
More likely you'll start humping someone's leg.


Crass humor aside, it's only validation if you feel a need to be validated.


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The point is to see what extent I feel good about myself and validate my existence through sexual gratification.

If after 3 months I feel awful and have no sex drive or whatever, then clearly sexual gratification is a huge part of my existence and thus I validate myself through the opposite sex.

On the other hand, if I feel great, still have a sex drive, and am excited to get back into the game, it simply means that women are minimal in validation, but are a supplement to feeling good.

I've even been warned that I'll want to show my love more passionately than ever. Which is an even more interesting outcome! Will I be begging to get married and all that?

I'm unsure of what the outcome will be.

It's just as much an experiment as a challenge.
It's cool you're using yourself as a guinea pig, but unfortunatly the results will only have an impact on you, not an entire gender.

unless you get more volunteers to participate in your experiments, it'll have no effect on an entire gender of species.


What I'm trying to say, you're pretty much wasting your time if you want to make this a scientific experiment.

Run around proclaiming you're on celibacy all you like though, that's your decision.


p.s.

I corrected your typo's to make it a more validate research if you'd try to make it so.


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Thanks for correcting the typos. I'm dyslexic so typos are a common thing for me.

I like the comments about how it's only validation if you need it to be. I was thinking exactly that earlier today. I know when I was younger I had sex as total validation and if I didn't get a girl back to my room at uni, I would call an FB and have sex. Back then it was 100% validation.

I'm curious to what extent it is still validation as I have quite a few FBs and have not gone long without sex. It certainly is just as a personal thing I know. I just want people to be accountable to so that I don't just get to a week and give up.

Also it's just an interesting thing to see how I react.

I know that after 3 months my load is going over some poor unsuspecting girls face!!! I just hope I don't cum prematurely (a possible danger after 3 months of nothing). I'll try and get you a picture of the after effect on her face haha.

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Shouldn't you be starting back at day 1 since you blew your load down your friend's wife's throat on day 4?

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this is fucking stupid, you want to document what it feels like not having sex for 2 weeks? ask anyone on this forum


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