Hey guys i could really use some help or advice on this cuz im sure you've all been through it before. I was really into pick-up before my gf and was pretty good at it. Well my skills landed me a beautiful woman at my college and we had a very fun, and emotional relationship for almost a year. Towards the end of the relationship she started taking the fact I was very good and reliable to her for granted. She started avoiding me, and it was even rumored she cheated on me(of course she denied it). Well i would not stand for that crap and we broke up. We have been broken up for over a month, but the emotional connection still remains. Of course now she really wants me back and says she will be totally different, and I also still have feelings for her. But i need to follow my head on this one and not my heart cuz i know she'll treat me like shit again. I really want to get back into the game, and i have been studying non-stop. The only problem though is that my emotions for this crappy girl keep getting in my way. I really want to disconnect from these feelings and go out there and do my thing. What is the best way to get over these awful, depressing, feelings? And how can i stop feeling emotions for this girl?? Thanks.

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I have no solution to the sound of this pollution in me

After an LTR you expect it to take at least 1/3 the relationship time to get over it. So if you were together a year, it will take about 4 months minimum.

My personal solution would have been, as soon as I'd heard rumors of her cheating, I would have cheated on her. If I'd felt guilty about it, I would have learnt a valuable lesson (this womans different, I actually care about her). If on the other hand I didn't feel guilty, I'd just get a few women lined up for when we break up, because if you can cheat and not care, you'll split up guaranteed.

To keep a woman interested, create a strong emotional connection, then break it for an hour or a few hours a day. "Be mean to keep them keen." If you've never heard that expression before check the results....how many women do you know whose boyfriends are A-holes to them, yet still stick by them and say they're unlovely with them?

I'm not suggesting being an A-hole boyfriend. But change reliable for unpredictable, now and again. Oh and don't do everything they ask. If you're a walkover you need to remember, she wanted a boyfriend, not a servant.

Hope that helps.

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This truly sucks!!!

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Scyth, thanks for the words of wisdom. You are dead on with your theory of not bein predictable.

Vaj, hell yeah brother thats the plan.

I am currently on thanksgiving break from college, which is giving me time to load up and study lots of material, videos, and other shit. I am currently reading The Game too. Im looking to come into colelge after break like a bat outta hell ready to fuck shit up like I used to before the bitch.

Any other suggestions for material to study?

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I have no solution to the sound of this pollution in me

I'm a control freak so my material is all about dominance.

If you're starting out the best books are:
Robert Greene: The 48 Laws of Power, The Art of Seduction
Bandler & Grinder: Frogs to Princes
John Grey: Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

These books are for after you've read The Game and the follow on book The Rules of The Game.

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This truly sucks!!!