Just wanted to use this time wisely and approach all angles of advice/help. I know the only real issue is myself and ponying up to just do it.

I'm 30 from New Orleans. (which just reminds me to put this in my rapport building notes-Katrina). Not new to relationships, had 2 serious ones (one of 7 years and one of 1.5 years) and multiple hook ups in between but not always the quality that I prefer but some the quality I love but personnality was not so good. I initially got hooked into this community after I read Styles book "The Game" and started doing some research and homework. My goal from all this is just to change my life, my frame and be more social; and of course to meet someone that I'm compatible with of course. Long term, hook-ups to lead to long term but end goal is to find someone to be with long term.

I have admited and I know my issues are AA. I psyc myself out of it, come up with excuses, Kino doesn't feel natural, social awkwardness etc. I think if I can get through the AA than with random things I know I should be able to build on that with the tools I've learned. Just hoping for guidance and advice. Most of my time for the next 150 days will be Inner Game since I'm deployed. Learning Salsa is my goal for now and just "approaching" girls to dance even when I know its a no threat enviroment. Can't drink so it makes this more of a challenge. Hope to hear back and get some advice.