I'm not solid with txt game yet lol. When you say ignore, do you mean switch the subject... Or not to reply at all?

If a girl opened you up with a shit test, via text, you simply don't reply? If you guys are talking about a subject, and she throws a shit test somewhere in the middle, you ignore it and stick to the subject?... Correct?

You Got it.

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Who is more of a bitch? The guy who gets defensive or the guy who says nothing and looks completely unphased?

Now, on another level, who is more of a bitch? The guy who says nothing but pouts or shows some sort of small reaction with his body language or the guy who says nothing and looks completely fine?

Those questions are rhetorical, but if you don't know the answers then you really need some more field experience.

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I don't think chief got my joke....

Yeah I don't watch that show regularly at all

If you just ignore it you'll get an awkward moment between the two of you as she expects a response. In my opinion its better to respond with this

HB: He's way better looking than you.
Me: "Yeah, thats a good one."



If you don't respond she'll think either

1. Your hearing is bad or
2. Your a bit strange

and by not responding at all surely that says to her that she has left you with no comeback.

Sorry, but this is very wrong lol. Awkward = Good. Push for awkward. I use to think talking to girls to death would win them over. Then, I decided to just shuttup, let that awkward silence come alive.... and lets just say I've been a lot more successful.

Thanks for the post Chief. I got the answer.

Think of it.

Have you never been in a situation, that someone, wheter it is a friend or your father, aksed you for a favor,and you wanted to decline, but (s)he just shuted up and kept looking powerfully at you with this pokerface, and you felt awkward and a preasure to say yes in the end?

(And just in case: don't say no because "you're alfa and say what you want")

It's just exactly the same with girls. The good thing about this is, is that you can also build attraction with it. When you shut up, come a bit closer to her and look seductivly in her eyes. Be very confident in this awkward situation. She'll feel preasure, she'll feel nervous, she'll feel emotions and butterflies like it's the feeling of being in love. It creates attraction. She'll feel bad for trying to diss you or for declining. You made her feel bad without using a single word and that also made you more powerfull in her eyes. You see the reason behind it?
Okay, some girls might say this, or something comparable. Ever thought about why they might say this?
It's because they can't handle the tension you just created. Girls want to feel normal, chill, and want to get rid of these butterflies feeling, of being nervous, feeling attraction to someone. Saying this actualy means she is attracted to you but she tries to break rapport and reduce tension.

That means, don't fall for this trap! Keep the tensio, don't reduce it. Respond the same way. If you say something verbally, you make the resistance real, and you don't want to do that. Just Repeat this again: look at her seductivly, with a pokerface or a sly smile, maybe come a bit closer, and after a few seconds of awkwardness, turn you head slowly away, and start talking about something differently or go back to the subject before the shit test, or let her talk again (which she might do to reduce the tension).

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Isn't it so refreshing, knowing you'll never have to think of any more witty/cocky/dumbass/neg/"alpha" comebacks. Silence, eye contact, and proximity replace it all.

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this is the good thing about it.

The bad thing is that the only people who tell us that it builds attraction are other dudes. We need some female opinion.

And yes, when I do that to my female friends they usually either verbally apologize, or first ask what? and then again verbally apologize.

Whether its a good thing or a bad thing.

Reading this... what came to mind first.

He probably is (without looking at him). I'm not that attractive... (pause, maybe get a giggle) plus I smell funny (she'd laugh).

HB: He's way better looking than you.
Me: But at least I can seduce the guy.

Try that.