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maybe rather than stubborn she just isnt a needy puppy and is astute and sees through your ploy, maybe she is acting 'unfazed' in response or maybe she just is 'unfazed' and just too cool for you
it might help to know more: are you in a relationship with her already? how long for? for what reason are you doing the unfazed walkaway thing, what has she done to prompt that, what are you attempting to achieve with it?
I'm in a relationship with her (for a month now), so no worries with the "too cool for me" thing. She really is a stubborn girl though. And there's 2 possible extremes to go about dealing with the LMR. If I act like I'm totally cool with her resistance, it gets her in the habit of thinking it's OK to do that to me = I get walked on. And on the other extreme, if I act totally pissed that she did that, she'll think that she has the power to affect me = I still get walked on. So I saw the "unfazed" option as the best bet. A balance in between the two. But THAT didn't even work.