whatup? im not the most attractive person, and whenever I neg a girl she gets mad and just leaves....i dont get it. i get a lot of girls by just being nice....negging just doesn't work for me, is anyone else like this?

ok...no 1 replied so ill give more details... i have nice hair, and she touched my hair in front of my friends and i was like "hey this isnt free" and backed up.....and she said "ok... I don't have to talk to you right now" and walked away..i thought negging was supposed to get her to like me?

Did you say it in a happy/playful way? This sounds strange...

you probbably insulted them,
If your new to the game its normal, I had it happen to me.

wirte down a list of your negs you use...

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ya i said it in a playful mood, i think i know what was wrong....she used to b an ugly girl, so i probably just offended her. watev

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I personally hate negging. It has never worked for me.

A more discrete way of negging is simply ignoring with body language....don't face her with your shoulders squared away. Talk to her from an angle....like you are about to leave.

What also works is indirect negging. For example: You are talking to a very cute face HB9 that is slightly chubby, but in the right places. You know she could lose a few pounds. In conversation with her you can talk about your imaginary or real friend who doesn't take care of themselves physically, by mentioning they don't like to exercise. You can also how you are trying to help him/her achieve ideal weight by taking care of themselves. This is will tell your chubby HB9 "shit, he is probably noticing my extra flab here and here and here". That puts you ON TOP of her in terms of confidence. It is also very subtle negging that is done right.

good luck

thanks man, that really helped, i hope i dont mess it up because it sounds like that could go bad quickly lol

Negs pretty much work on most girls. The thing is you have to know how to deliver it to the girl you are talking to. Part of delivery is to know WHEN to deliver a neg, not just how. You also could also be delivering the neg wrongly to the girl, as you have to adjust your game to the girl. What I am getting here is you could be saying the the neg all playful and such but you may be emphasizing the wrong part of the neg for the girl.

Why neg when she's touching your hair? You neg her when you need to break down her confidence a bit, to make talking to her or touching her easier. I get girls touching my hair all the time and I just enjoy it and laugh. It's pointless getting her to lose confidence when she's making moves on you!

Ah shit, ur right i was probably just doing it at the wrong time...she was into me so why did i neg?? ffs that sucks lol. its okay i have an excuse: i was slightly tipsy:P which i realize now was a bad idea lol

its all about calibration man. go out to find out

Experience. I got blown out for a loong time when I first started calibrating my C&F/negging. Still fuck it up from time to time.

Negs are awesome.

Next time a girl touches your hair, your shirt, whatever maybe go with "Yeah, that will be 7 dollars" instead of "this shit isn't free". First of, it sounds less like you are pushing her away, second it opens up conversation more, tell her a bs story why you want her to pay for touching you and thirth, if she is playful she will continue to touch you. Works like a charm.

Don't forget to smile and be playful when negging!

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i find with negs you have to be careful about what you neg about. Clothing, Jewelery, shoes, socks, car, etc... i see as acceptable but when you start neging about the girls body they then might see it as an insult dew to the fact they are self conscious or have low confidence. Keep that in mind

Hope it helps.

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