How should you generally go on about escalating the rapport a girl shows you so that it becomes meaningful?

Sometimes, I'm not sure what to do in this situation because I'm unfamiliar with it, and to be honest, feel a little uncomfortable.

When a girl shows me rapport, should I show rapport back? how do I go on about that?

What do you mean by rapport? Laughing at your jokes, touching your hand, playing with her hair, licking your neck.....?

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Hi man.

rapport. It means she is interested in her. I dont know what it really is what you want. Do you just want sex with her? Or do you want to have a long term relationship, as the situation is, with this girl? there is a difference.

If its just sex you want, you start touching her more. Her hands, arms, shoulders, that is the basic. When you feel that she is comfortable, you can go for the hips and her back. Now the next step here is not going booby or ass. At this point, i went for the kiss. while kissing preferably, you turn up the heat. When you get resistance, and more often well then not, take one step back so you can progress two.

If it is an LTR you want then you need to ask yourself some questions (if you havent already). You need to know what it is you are looking for in a woman. You need to do some honest self reflection about yourself. Know what you want, then go for it. To go turn this into a LTR, you might want to get to know her better. And not just her favorite color is blue. Rapport basically means interest in you, so you return that interest. Some gurus will tell you that it is wrong to ask questions, but that is just bullshit. Ask the things you want to know, and also, dont think shit for an answer. Stand your ground, you want to know this! you need a bit of prove as well. if you want to know if she is adventurous, and she says yes, ask her : in what way? how come you think of yourself you are adventurous? and so on. If it truly clicks, and you will find that out soon enough if you are a match, you can then start escalating the whole thing like i said above. take initiative in this. If you are at the kiss moment, stop right there. look her in the eyes, tell her you like her a lot and you want to be with her.

best of luck,

ciao!

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Oh yeahhh, good point. I should have made the distinction. Rapport in this case would be like "trying to please you kind" or "getting you to acknowledge her"

Not the being friendly one.

Thank LD, you provided me with a lot of helpful tips regarding LTR. Thanks.

And it's surprising that a lot of people take relationships for granted. For example, not getting to know the other person a bit better, and instead just go for it. In other words, escalating without knowing if the person is truly right for you yet.

Enough said. THank you so much !!! This will jumpstart everything for me

For an LTR guide read "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" It's EASILY the best relationship book I have ever read!!! No question asked!!! Take the lessons to heart and you'll be amazed the difference it makes!

For the Rapport, just return the direction she is asking for, but not for quite as long. If she wants you to chat for ages, go to the toilet and then straight to the bar. Giving her absence of your presence.

If she's trying to catch your eye in a club, becon her over then say you were actually calling your mate over from behind her, but use it to chat.

If she's trying to make you happy, ask her deep questions about what she wants in a man, then play around with it so that she sees those qualities in you.

[I'm a little tired so if this isnt making much senses blame someone else. I'll replay when I'm awake properly]

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