I just got off work (female clothing store) and something became really apparent to me.

when ur energy and your mood arent in the right place.. it gets reeeeaal hard to communicate the things u need to communicate to reach the hook point.

last time i went in.. i had this manager that likes to flirt and the validation from that got my mood to a real good place, and I added alot to everyones vibe..

but this time I had a manager who has a bit of a bitch shield up.. and it was soooo hard to gain any momentum or leverage so i could add to the vibe.. I wasent fun and social like before, I was robotic and salesman like... and i was like a car stuck in the mudd.. like the harder id spin my wheels the more stuck id get.. but the funny thing is.. the flirty one came in.. and we laughed a lil bit in a completely platonic way about something and the next chick I talked to I hooked perfectly...

so I need a way to either get in state, or reach the hook point easier...

Edit: just thought of this, OR a bitch shield destroyer so i can hook the manager, and feed off her vibe so i can use it on everyone else...

what's a hooking point?

It's a moment close after an opener, where your target gets 'hooked' and invests in the interaction.

how?


Get her to fly the plane manually, instead of leaving it on autopilot.
There is a variety of ways to achieve this. Anything that isn't AFC 'weather bullshit' talk can do.

-teasing
-cold-reads
-roleplays
-originality
-authenticity



But seriously, though, this won't have anything to do with your case.... since your 'managers' are just your warm up sets, and you shouldn't really be caring how they react to you, since you're not gonna go to bed with them. Have fun with them. The bitchy one probably wasn't in a talkative mood. Who cares, her own fucking problem.

have fun with your co-workers, she should loosen up, or continue being a bitch.

Also, when you're building momentum, act out of your desires. NOT going for reactions. Which makes your 'managers' a really poor choice of warm up set, tbh.

that last part was real.. thats prob. the difference maker.. im prob shooting for a certain reaction and thats sabotaging me, thanks..