Hey im 21 years old and from London.

bit bout myself, Im a good looking guy and i have confidence but around women i feel shy, low confidence and dont know what to talk about or flirt.

The reason why im here:
I met this girl on FB, shes 17(i know shes a lil too young) but shes different, shes funny, shes clever, not a slut(a whore)shes never had a BF, shes a nice family girl and shes Turkish(same as me).


Guys i want to be with this girl(relationship wise) where should i write the details and advice from on the forum.

I need help ! lol

hey mate.maybe i can help you a little (im new also though). firstly, you say you feel shy around women. this is common, but the main thing to realise is that it doesnt matter all that much WHAT YOU SAY, its more HOW you say it. Focus on body language, being spontaneous, teasing, being topical, teasing , speaking slowly and calmly, teasing and just generally coming across as someone with their head screwed on tight, as opposed to some nervous kid making small talk.

if you are happy with the 4 year age gap, then GO FOR HER. just remember, for her to see you as a partner instead of sticking you in the friend zone, you must set the flirty frame from now on. it doesnt have to be over the top, but keep it fun and flirty and she will probably respond the same. being good looking and 4 years older is a good DHV.

good luck

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