How can I physically touch women in the most appropriate way while conveying sexuality?

Ie, what would YOU do if you were trying to pickup in terms of touching.

The more examples the better!
(Thanks to everyone whose replied to my posts so far, MASSIVE help)

Kino is something you have to learn by experience. And only by experience, it will become on autopilot and it will be smooth. Also, it is very important part of the game, so make sure you work on it.


For me, I do kino after:
- 1st IOI or hook point. I take her hand, say "I like your dress, let me see it" then spin her around.

-2nd kino is fake palm reading where I am just saying things that are not even close to being true. (you can do the ring finger routine here too if you want)

-3rd is hug test then I am the first to push her off. (just ask her if she is a good hugger

By this time, I am standing or sitting next to her building a lot of comfort. Also, between those phases, I do lots of light kino. Like playfully pushing, or hip bumping.
Key thing to keep in mind, is to start small and start building to heavier kino with push/pull. If there is a dance floor, this is a great way to built towards heavy kino. I know most PUA say don't do dance floor game. But I think they mean don't try to pick up girls on the dance floor.

Here's a fun game to play, get one of those design your own tshirt kids and just write on it "Free Hug" then while chatting say "Quick question, are you actually talking to me for any reason other than to get your free hug?" and point to the tshirt in a cocky funny way. It's a quick easy way to start kino.

Follow on with lines like "Mmm you smell nice, are you wearing Calvin Klein?" most the time (in my experience) women quickly sniff their wrists to double check what they're wearing. Which is when you explain why women put perfume on their wrists and their neck (it's the blood flow, most mobile parts to create an aoura of scent and also the neck for when someone leans in to talk to them) touching each part as you say about it. As you touch the neck say about how 'coincidentally those areas also have an exceptionally high number of nerve endings,' stroke the hand then wrist and then the neck.

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This truly sucks!!!

Just remembered an even easier way, if she's wearing a ring, take her hand and say along the lines of "Ooow I love that ring (only say if it is actually good, otherwise just look at it without making a comment and continue...) It's my sisters birthday soon and I need to get her a present. I was thinking of getting her a ring because she loves jewellery." please note you should still have her hand in yours.

If she's not wearing a ring it's easy to do still. Just say "Its my sisters birthday (or it's coming up to Christmas)...[continue the above line]" and take her hands in yours. If she has a ring comment or ask if she can help you with sizing, if she has no ring say that's interesting and ask why.

This is also a great way to check if they're engaged or married. If engaged say "Who's the lucky man. Who ever he is he has good taste in rings...or did you choose this?" If she's married.... Married women can be amazing in bed, or their husbands can be huge gun toting nutters!! It's your call.

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This truly sucks!!!

Kino is a lot like grooming a child for your paedophile ring



Start early, and start small.



A great way to ingrain it into your game is to make sure you do 3 touches within the first couple of minutes of every interaction with every woman you meet from now on. Touch the shoulder, arm, elbow, etc. just lightly, to emphasise a point, or at a punchline of a joke, or directing her attention "over there" or something like that. You can move up to touching her waist or the small of the back, pulling her into you (for a sec, then push her away!) and so forth. Always be the first to break contact, NEVER look where you're touching, and keep escalating as you're gaming.

If you kino properly, then you never need to worry again about leaning in for a kiss and her being like "OMG what are you doing" because the kiss becomes a natural step in a progression from friendly to sexual touching. Every step up the kino ladder is compliance and is implied consent for you to continue moving the interaction towards sex. DO IT!

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let them see that you are alittle bit touchy then the other guys around...
when u aproach a set ley a hand on her shoulder just for a sec and then take it off.
(do that while u run ur opener).
keep on beeing touchy (of course u need alot of IOIs so u can do that with no fear of rejection)
then its all basic rutins...

enjoy bro

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The only IOI you need is compliance. If she keeps allowing you to touch her, then keep doing it!

Yes = Yes
Maybe = Yes, later
No = Maybe, later.

The only "rejection" is if she moves away, or slides you hand to somewhere less sexual, at which point you drop contact completely and re-engage later. Not something to really be "afraid" of is it?

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fear brings bad preformance... bad preformance brings failure..
if you not confident with ur touch or at ease when u do it she will feel it.

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it all depends on where u are.

if ur in a club perfect. when u talk to her, you have to talk into her ear soo she can here u ovcourse. perfect time t get close u just pull her in and talk to her with ur hand behind her head or on her shoulder etc.

and rememba if u do hold hands for wateva reason dont let go, talk to her whilst hand in hand and she'll soon realise, wow ive been holding this guys hand the whole time, works genious.

the key is to act kool like it happins all the time.

if ur not at a club, then keep the touching to a minimum, act cool, layed back, lean backwards if sitting down, just sit like u own the place.

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For what it's worth, I'll contribute my 2 cents to the above. I do like blondguy's advice of touching early.
If you introduce each other early, shake hands and don't let go, all the while holding strong EC. It's a fun game to play and you can gauge either A) how welcoming she is to kino, or B) how distracted she is by the conversation that she doesn't really notice. I've "shook hands" for a good 2 minutes before, all I needed to know that she was a sure thing. If you open without prior EC, touching her on the shoulder or back as you open works well also.

Other tips:
1. If it's loud, you can lean in when talking, touching her shoulder or back. Sounds cheesy but works.
2. If it's loud and you're standing more in front that sideways, lean in and touch cheeks while talking. Also easy to transition into KC.
3. If your standing frontal, you can lightly grab both her shoulders while declaring some sort of mission. E.g. "Okay, we'll get you over your social anxiety problems, here's how it starts" I've used something to that effect after teasing a girl about her non-existent social anxiety. Just make sure it's something playful.
4. Later in the conversation, grab her hand (don't look at it or otherwise change your BL). Pet her hand with your thumb, see how she reacts.
5. If you're sitting, put your arm around her or start touching legs.

Between this and the "Reheat supper in the morning" bit, I'm hoping I can get your address so I can send you the bill for my new keyboard, strangely enough the old one doesn't take well to having coffee spit all over it.