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PostPosted: Tue Nov 16, 2010 5:23 pm 
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Hey guys.

Thanks to the forum and other PUA stuff my Game is going greath, but I want it to be perfeft.

at this moment my nr.1 problem is reaching the social hookpoint.

pleas give me some advice.


Gianni a.k.a Grifter


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 16, 2010 5:41 pm 
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Sinn defines the social hookpoint as the time when the HB(s) will pick up the conversational slack if you are silent for a moment. This is usually after you have transitioned from you opening conversational thread, have moved into a "normal" conversation, have probably made them laugh a couple of times, and you are in a "locked-in" position in terms of body language / logistics.

However, you don't need to necessarily be thinking "omg have I reached point X yet" in the back of your mind. Just focus on progressing the interaction as far as possible.

If you're not reaching this point yet, chances are you're "milking the opener" i.e. staying on the same conversational thread for too long. Work on transitioning. There are a few ways to transition.

1. Stack another opinion opener
2. Cold read - notice something about them and say what that says about them
3. Make a statement that would usually be a question (e.g. instead of "where are you from" say "you're totally a northern girl I can tell"
4.Transition into a DHV story with phrases like "that reminds me of" "oh so the craziest thing happened" "no way, that's just like when..."

remember, topics don't have to logically follow as long as they're having fun!

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