So this girl and I went out, we texted back and forth, she was dropping IOI's all over the place, begging me to call her, dropping sexual innuendo, etc., and then at one point she started not answering my calls and telling me she doesn't have time to talk, etc. (I think it happened because I started to think we were already a done deal and began to be really nice to her..)

So I freezed her out, didn't call or text her for 3 weeks.

Now how do I get it going again? I don't want to do something lame like text her "Hey remember me?" but I can't think of anything else.

Any suggestions?

EDIT: BTW we only went out once.

offer her a trip to the sauna unless you have an unfreezing gun

Has she contacted you in these three weeks? from the above quote, sounds like she lost interest, hey it happens to the best of us...move on to the next

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I will not apologize for who I am, what I am or what I'm about to do...

No, she hasn't made any contact. Is that it, then? Just give up?

Probably. If she had interest I imagine she would of text at least once during that time.

She could say the same about me, but I haven't lost interest.

Supposing I didn't want to give up just yet, how do you initiate contact again?

I guess you could send a mesage and say "whats up" and see what happens

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I will not apologize for who I am, what I am or what I'm about to do...

Just pretend like you don't know her at all anymore. If you see her face, just say, "Hey you look familiar, I think I knew you before." or if it's over text just say, "Hey what's up? You were on my contacts so I thought we knew each other in a way." And let it unwind...

id open her w. a neg..

ew ur still alive? lol

then let her challenge u and call u a dick and blah blah blah and just cocky funny ur way into being cool w. her again..

You could try this:

Send her a blank text message.

When she responds (hopefully!) telling you that she just got a blank text from you, tell her that you never sent the blank text and she doesn't need to make up reasons to text you.

Just go C+F with her and test the water, push-pull, tease and keep it breezy.

OR........

Send her a text saying "Hey sex kitten - you looking forward to tonight? ;0)"

When she sends you a text back saying something along the lines of "I don't think that text was meant for me, we dont have any plans for tonight" you can reply with "OOPS! I sent that to the wrong _______ in my phone book"

This approach shows her that you have women in your life already that you are being sexual with - social proof right there!

*Note* Only do this is the girl in question has a common-ish name - it's not gonna work on a girl called Nbokululu or something equally as rare!

Soul

What does C+F mean?

It stands for Cocky + Funny.

Google David DeAngelo - he teaches this method of pick-up. There must be hundreds of threads on this forum about C+F - have a search about mate

Aha, thanks, yeah I've listened to DD talk about cocky+funny.

Cheers mate