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If not, it’s much safer to just keep your mouth shut, hold eye contact and
smile. There will be way too many tests to always have a good response. For example
which response do you think is better?
“I’m old enough to be your mother”
1. I have a big thing for Cougars (wink)
2. Hold seductive eye contact and smile, turn head away slow
Although the cougar line is funny it comes with the risk of breaking rapport and giving
her an excuse to reject you. Even though she likes you. The safer play is always
seductive eye contact and smiling.
60's says that you often kill the sexual tension by saying something or responding to a shit test. He argues that you need to do nothing, you don't have to deal with it or qualify because she is already attracted to you.
Three questions:
1) If rapport is the same as talking, then don't you actualy kill it by saying nothing? (Or does he has an other definition of rapport?)
2) Why turning your head slowly? Are you then still holding eye contact? And why is it good?
3) What will happen next after you did it? 60's says you have to say nothing, but in the end somethinh must happen then. Should you wait till she says something different or do you have to say something that doesn't have to anything to day with the shit test after you dealt seductivly with it?