Alright, so I made a thread about 4 days ago about how my girlfriend broke up with me after telling her how much I loved her (we've been dating for 2 and a half years) and seriously broke my heart. To my complete surprises she called me today telling me she made a huge mistake and wants me back.

I really want to take her back and I truly love her and I cant even tell you how lonely I've been for the past week without her but I feel like I just cant let her off that easy because of all the pain I went thru this last week because of her irrational decisions.
I told her I would think about it, and she said okay and would be waiting for me no matter how long it took.

Did you end it with her or did she end it with you? What do you think is gunna make you happier in the long term? I think you should go out and party and have fun and see if you still feel the same way when you're chasing other girls. Good luck to you! I hope you make the right choice

I dont mean to be rude, but first sentence in my post says how my girlfriend broke up with me

I was confused because in your other thread, it sounded more like you ended it with her. Sorry about that... anyway, it seems a little weird that shes the one running back to you after SHE dumped YOU. Breaking up with someone is big and her indecisiveness really hurt you. Idk man, if you really want her back then take her back but I think you should take a few days. If shes serious about taking you back then she will wait. At the same time, you can go out there and meet some girls and see if you still want only her. Good luck man

edit: wups looks like you have two threads in nov... sry man completely my fault, i was looking at the wrong thread. sounds like a rocky breakup.... i hope things turn around for ya!

Alright, well I told her I don't want to deal with this over the phone and if she wants to know what I'm feeling she should come to my house and see me so I think she'll be driving over tomorrow.


Here's the thing I don't know if I should bring up. There's this boy that *I think* is the root of all many of our problems. He constantly hits on her and he's very kind to her but has already told her that he has feeling for her which she has denied. Whenever things start to get rough with us he is there to cheer her up and make things worse for us. This guy is making her very confused since he's her "best friend" and is very flirty with her she keeps having these moments of weakness where she doubts our relationship and then saying they were a mistake.
I see my girlfriend once every two weeks so I'm sure you can understand how things can be hard for her.

I feel like I should tell her to either cut off connections with this guy if he's going to make her feel like this. His intentions are obviously be in a relationship with her and he doesn't just want to be friends. He has no respect for our relationship and just being friends with this guy whos in love with you is just going to make our relationship harder at this point because he is trying everything he knows to be sneaky and get with her.