ok so theres this girl im talking to i no she is attracted to me always initiates first contact on facebook, i see her in work but not very often anymore as she is now at uni only weekends but i rarely work weekends, she asked for my number again on facebook because she broke her old phone, i couldnt escalate realy at the time because i was waiting for my sti results to come back an i thought they would be 2 week away, but were only 3 days away clear aswell bonus, also i am not realy a online speaker i hate it txting an that, i prefere face to face, also i dont have her new number which is a shame we were jsut talking about random stuff an got carried away so i want to message her on facebook an ask her out for a drink i met her waaaay before i even new pua stuff like 3 month ago. So my question is whats the best way to ask her without been needy i was just going to put .. hey you free sometime this week wondering if you fancied going for a drink get to no each other a bit better ... all i can realy think of i no shes attracted so i was going to offer it on a plate but shes a nice girl this 1 down to earth still only another girl though so any help would be appreciated . ps sorry for the grammar its not my strong point

Hi man;

first: try typing in full understandable sentences with full understandable English words. It makes it a bit more easy for guys who dont have English as mother tongue to understand what the hell you are talking about.

Secondly: You say you know she is attracted to you? Darn man, there is only one way to be sure and that is too just plain ask. what is the most direct way of contacting her you have? You dont have address or number? use facebook and ask. From there on, if you go on a date/cup of coffee drink/ whatever activity you do together, it would be an excellent time to tell her /show her how you really feel about her.

If you say that she is attracted to you, then what should stop you? less chance she will reject you. And if she does, consider the reason well, then decide if you want to continue with it or if its best to look for somebody else.

Be a man. You want something? go get it.

lots of luck

ciao

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

well i took your advice an messaged her heres what i got.
14 November
alright xxx just sent you a text but just rememberd youve got a new phone so you wont get it was wondering if your free sometime this week an if you fancied goin for a drink just to the spoons or somethin x .

14 November
xxxxxxxxxxxx theres my new number
I cant this week cos ive got uni more than usual and sooo much work to do. how about next week? x

im terrible at texting internet game an phone calls i can only excell in face to face contact i am working on them though.

what you think i should put back or the basis of what i should put back
any negative feed back welcomed as its the only way to learn
cheers.

Hey man!

i am not trying to put you down, ashame you or disrespect you. I am just saying what i think . this is anonymous messaging, so its easy to say what i think, but its also the best i think.
Well, anyway, she proposes next week. I am going to ask you the same question: Do you want to be with her? Then its easy, text her back, say ok, how abut wednesday, thursday, any day you got the time to do so. Suggest an hour. I am pretty sure, if she has the time, that she will say yes.

You see, what happened here is this: she tells you that there is a situation why she cant come with you. But she also suggests another option for still meeting you. So be glad! No more 'gaming' or fooling around. its time for the real deal, which is just plain honest going for what you want.

lots of luck! You will do fine i think.

ciao!

_________________
"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you