i know this is depends completey on the girl in question and the guy pursuing...but im curious if anyone here has just gone for it with a girl theyve known through somebody else.

my ex gf of 3 years had a really good friend of hers that i just want to f**k the hell out of. She recently just got out of a relationship, so im thinking she might be easier to convince. She already knows im a good guy, and has probably heard bedroom stories from my ex, i cant help but think she'd be curious about casual sex if i just went for it

I want nothing more than an intimate encounter, so i really dont wanna put in any work here, no pua openning stuff....but ive never tried playing that role, complete evolutionary alpha.
complete confidence, as if i have the goods, and im being completely upfront about my intentions.

i was just gonna send her a text like "i have a secret, would you wanna keep it?"
...just turn it into a playful game, with no fluff.

ive heard rumors about this chick cheating on quite a few ex boyfriends, so i think she might be a good candidate.

share experiences, if you tried something like this before

How about the plain old honest way?

text her, say you want to meet. when you are together, tell her you think she is hoto and you want sex with her. Nothing more, nothing less, just casual sex.

Stand your ground when she starts yelling at you. You want it, but you wont force her. She can either walk away or stay (and calling you names and whatever), but still, both reactions speak for themselves. If she stays and keeps on calling you names, ask her how long she is going to do that before she is going to agree.

Its quite simple, but you need a lot of guts to do it. People will say that your body language is important, but its not. If you shake and your knees feel like they are going to die,its all ok, as long as you stand your ground on wanting sex with her.

Remember, you state that you want it, you dont ask it. WHen you state something you want, you agree that there is a possibility that you wont have it, thus you do not force her. She can either agree or disagree.

I wish you lots of luck and balls. Let us know how it went.

ciao!

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I would advise against actually saying this. However, you can imply it by doing exactly what you said. Meet her, and just be very sexual, hold eye contact, escalate quickly and confidently, but do actually talk and be fun and interesting. The best topic of conversation? SEX.

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So has she.

Going the direct route with her is like telling her, "Everybody tells me you're a slut. I believe them. This is why I can treat you like a whore and just tell you to suck my cock. . . because you know . . .you're a slut. By the way, I wash hair at a hair salon so trust me. I'm pretty up to date with my lady gossip." - This is when you'd put your hand on your hip and make like lady Gaga.

going for the direct approach at this type of situation needs a lot of balls. might work. but i also think to much gutts can leave you with no glory.

"ive heard rumors about this chick"

If its confirmed. then maybe its an advantage for you. if not and she finds out you believe in this rumor you might be in some sort of trouble.

my suggestion. show her your intentions in a subtle manner. hold your ground. take the punches in case.

Nothing wrong with that actually... its preferably said in person rather than a text message. But i hardly think the OP is capable of doing what your suggesting.

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Hey again.

You are right, it might leave you with all the balls and no glory and perhaps 10 min wasted.

Or you might want to go subtle, with an intense sexual vibe, spend a couple of hours together just to find out she really wants to be left alone for some time. No balls, no glory, no sex and you wasted you evening on somebody you dont want to waste a lot of time on.

Furthermore, and IMO more importantly: doing it subtly is like you want to hide it. Its like you want to trick her into it. You would say: lets meet, then when she does, you are all over her, "having a sexual vibe" and talk about sex while not making any clear intentions. What is this, an honest attempt for another relationship or is it just for once? She doesnt know. I am bout 100% sure she will resist, and the fact that you was doing it 'behind the covers' isnt going to help getting over the resistance. At this time, i think (and i do admit, this is just what i would do in this situation) you need to be direct and strong.

Being direct really isnt about her, its about yourself and stating what it is you want. instead of always talking and walking around the bush. It is not a trick that should work. I am not telling you to go 50-cent on her, bad mouthing her so bad that even Hugh Heffner would be shocked. No, just tell her you want sex with her. You think she is smoking hot, and only the sight of her makes you horny as hell. Or whatever the truth is in your mind.

That concludes the part where i disagree with the others.

Now something we might agree on: dont text her: i have a secret, you wanna keep it. When you can say things face to face, verbally, it really doesnt matter what you if you say it right. But in a text messsage, this is like a pickup line. You might as well say: heaven is missing an angel and it is you, or, Hugh Heffner is missing one of his bunnies and it is you, or something like that. Just text her you want to meet.

ciao!

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"Stop being a fucking vagina and escalate" - CaptainJackHarkness

Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

hmmm, i agree and i must admit i havent considered that. Then i hope it might be a new perspective for another way to him.

ciao

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Like the naked leads the blind.
I know I'm selfish, I'm unkind.
Sucker love I always find,
Someone to bruise and leave behind.
placebo - every me, every you

i think direct is good, just not via text.. i think face to face "so are we gonna do this or keep playing" during isolation after building up the sexual tension w. solid attraction game & somehow justifying it emotionally however u gotta do that.. is gonna get u what ur looking for here.