Fellow PUA's I have just embarked on my first ever misson on my own as a pua. I went into a club I did a well known opener known as the glasses opener where I ask the set wheather i keep my glasses on or off and on the both occasions I did this the targets laughed in my face and did not want to inneract with me can some one please tell me what i did wrong any advice on this issue would be of great help thank you very much

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Charisma

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As a rookie myself, try a different opener. Best advice, treat the 10's like 5's and 5's like 10's. Open with a neg

I have glasses myself and its not that its a bad opener its that you have to show confidence in your appearance so asking a random persons opinion is't the greatest way to do that. But you could try approaching a HB with glasses and ask her if she wears her glasses all the time.


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Yeah that opener just strikes me as very insecure.

As said above and as everyone should know by now, it depends on the way you say it. I don't wear my glasses in clubs personally, but I can imagine the difference between asking it like you don't really care, since you look awesome anyway and saying it filled with self conscience.

Its really about the way you ask but I don't see why they gave you that reaction, try some different openers if that doesn't work then maybe change your avatar

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Charisma, no worries dude! You did really AWESOME because you got out there and tried. The reason it didn't work is because you were nervous and unsure of yourself. It will take a while before you're able to speak to women without feeling nervous. Women are 10 times more perceptive about judging emotions than men are, so they can tell how you're feeling and if you're not confident they'll know and nothing you say will matter.

When I first started I went to a shopping mall and put different colognes on each wrist and spent a few hours walking around asking HB's which one smelled better. You can also practice talking to hot girls in the mall working in the stores. They'll be nice to you b/c they're paid to be nice to people who walk in their stores! It's a great confidence builder and a cologne that smells nice on you is a key part of your PUA gear. Be sure to find a scent that lasts for a long time. Some colognes will wear off in an hour or so and the chicks won't be able to smell it.

Why would you wear glasses to a club? If you can get some contact lenses wear them instead and find another opener, I wear glasses and would only maybe wear them to an indie/jazz type club and I'd only wear my "cool" red ones to standout/peacock.

I'd guess your glasses make you look like a nerd which as I say might only work in an indie/jazz place.

As stated above, I think the setting is to blame. In my opinion, this would work best at a dinner joint or bar etc.

Try pulling it off with the help of a wingman.. get him to say out loud: "How about you ask these girls over here" and then go over to a table or group of girls and ask "Hey ladies, I have a question for you. I'm on my way over to meet this girl.. what do you think: glasses on or off?"

that works....


but be quick.. and casual in fast pace settings. but also thats a well-used one i think... try less canned stuff.... or be more "on the fly"

"hey.. you look like you wear glasses...." then go into it...
if she says no say "oh..*laugh* so u just always squint?"

if she has a giant belt on go up and say "nice belt.....PAUSE.........im pretty sure SPAM has the same one"

"nice boots...... where did they let you park your horse?"

"wow i saw you from over there i love your eyes.........oh wait nvm.. they're brown...well their still ok"


you dont need anything earth shattering or trick-like for an open.... just be calm. smooth and dont think so much... the easiest way to be calm and smooth is to wingit... rehearsing stuff takes too much thinking....

wow dude, why do i get the feeling like ur shocked at the result. it was ur first time, and u went into a tough setting, and walked right up a group of girls, and if i was to guess, u probebly interupted them really badly and thats why u got wat happined.

Next time, approach a smaller set, maybe 1 or two girls. Tell them in their ear (coz clubs loud) that you need their help and opinion on something, and then ask them a interesting question. can be about wateva a friend, girlfriend, boss whoever. the idea when starting the game like urself is not to approach big groups, dont go direct untill ur able to face rejection. for now just approuch girls who seem bored/lonely/chilled etc.

All u want to do is get game time man, experience. u wanna go clubbing for like 5 hours, and in that 5 hours u wanna spend 4 of them, chatting to girl, flirting, getting to know them and how they think, and just becoming comfortable.

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