I'll try to keep this short and simple.

My relationship with this girl( HB10) started romantically and we hooked up. She was super into me and at the time I wasn't super into her. As time progresses I fell for her more and more and we hooked up a couple more times(no f-close).

I moved away for a year but during this time we hooked up once and hung out a couple times. She prides herself on being a virgin and guys are always all over her of course. I ignored her for a while trying to "reset" the relationship and start over.

She recently posted " I miss you" on my facebook and I texted her a couple days later and we texted and the first thing she said is "I miss you". and i mean that's all she put leaving me to open the rest of the convo. I managed to be C&F successfully, got her laughing and then she never wrote back in the middle of the convo.

Sorry for the lengthy post, but what do i do? I can't stop thinking about this chick and I have been hooking up with other girls. Thanks guys I dont know where else to turn

tough one.....

think the fact she is in your head all time probably not helping..... you have oneitis my man.

however all is not lost.... be aware tho, you are going to have to be openly willing to lose this woman if u ever want to peel those panties of. make HER chase YOU.

-Make it obvious your seeing other women (YOU are the prize)
-punish her when she doesn't behave (freezeouts)
-Dont show a lot of sexual intrest in her, this will fuck her head up if shes used to guys being all over her.
-Neg and tease her a lot
-Good use of kino escalation

Basicly mate, be the Alpha male she desires deep down, she'll be sick off nice guys buying her stuff and complimenting her and kissing her ass, endlessly, day in day out(she doesnt respect them). Be different. Challenge her, Tease her, Neg her, demonstrate your higher value to her.

hope this helps

Tiocfaidh Ar La

My man, Thank you. I'll take this to heart. I've been changing my outlook on life and through that i've been changing as a person(positively) and things are looking way up. I'm too good for her anyways

This forum rocks

your welcome mate. we're all in this together, thats why i love this forum, guys all over the world working for a common good (fucking more and better women). i know if im strugglin with a situation then i can get a solution on here so if i have an answer for someone elses problem i will help all i can!

do you play games with the girls? these can be very effective! much more than i thought. although it sounds like you are well past the stage where you need to build comfort with this chick, still fun tho.

keep in touch mate