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PostPosted: Tue Nov 09, 2010 10:24 pm 
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I've been reading 60 years of challenge and going out riding around with people with a ton of natural game, and one thing they all have in common is they make their intentions known from the outset. I just don't understand why you would ever need to 'trick' her into thinking you aren't interested in her.

Yes, girls want what they can't have. But if a girl thinks you obviously have no interest in her, wouldn't that kill your chances with a lot of women who otherwise you would score with?

I think I agree with 60. Go direct, or if you can't, make your intentions clear early on. You are a man and she is a woman. Nature will take its course.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 10, 2010 12:57 am 
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Exactly u got the right idea. I never apologize for my natural inclination to be attracted to women sexually!


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Well, you gotta understand. Most guys new to pick up are in because they suck with women overall. Using opinion openers or under the radar game is a great way to start building confidence with women. Chances of getting rejected from indirect opener is so low. And to newer guys, rejection is hard to deal with. Not to mention the AA there already dealing with.

BTW, the tactics and routines is not about tricking women to sleep with you. It's about teaching new guys how interaction with women works. If they sleep with a girl in the process, props to them.


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I've been reading 60 years of challenge and going out riding around with people with a ton of natural game, and one thing they all have in common is they make their intentions known from the outset. I just don't understand why you would ever need to 'trick' her into thinking you aren't interested in her.

Yes, girls want what they can't have. But if a girl thinks you obviously have no interest in her, wouldn't that kill your chances with a lot of women who otherwise you would score with?

I think I agree with 60. Go direct, or if you can't, make your intentions clear early on. You are a man and she is a woman. Nature will take its course.

Any ideas?
Don't mistake intentions with the communication process.


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I've been reading 60 years of challenge and going out riding around with people with a ton of natural game, and one thing they all have in common is they make their intentions known from the outset. I just don't understand why you would ever need to 'trick' her into thinking you aren't interested in her.

Yes, girls want what they can't have. But if a girl thinks you obviously have no interest in her, wouldn't that kill your chances with a lot of women who otherwise you would score with?

I think I agree with 60. Go direct, or if you can't, make your intentions clear early on. You are a man and she is a woman. Nature will take its course.

Any ideas?
Don't mistake intentions with the communication process.
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There's nothing wrong with acting totally honestly in line with your desires. Here's the problem, the guy who walks up to the hot girl in the club and says "nice tits, let's go back to my place and fuck" is unlikely to get laid unless there are very specific circumstances at work. He's displaying his intentions openly and being direct, but to the girl, he's only interested in SEX and not in HER as a person.

By going indirect, the guy has more of an opportunity to display his attractive qualities, whilst at the same time allowing the girl to display hers. That way, when he escalates sexually and qualifies her correctly, she's thinking she won him over and now he's attracted to her because of her personality as well as her looks.

You can do this directly, by using an opener like "I saw you from across the street and I think you look amazing - I'd be kicking myself all day if I didn't come over and find out more about you" because although it telegraphs sexual intent from the beginning, it also says FIND OUT MORE ABOUT YOU, i.e. you're still interested in her personality as looks by themselves aren't enough for you.

So really, it's not about pretending you don't have any sexual intent, it's just projecting it in the right way and at the right time.

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