Ok, I'm very new to all this but canned openers make me feel uncomfortable so for now I'm trying to approach naturally, just to get rid of anxiety. I just try to talk to people wherever I go with no intentions of picking anybody up just yet.
Well, last night I was going to my friends house so I stopped by grocery store to grab some beer. I saw this HB getting a bottle of wine, and as we were approaching the register I came up with an opener, something like:
"Oh, you already got the wine? I felt more like beer tonight but I guess the wine will be just fine"
Later I realized that maybe her boyfriend was waiting in a car while she was getting the wine for romantic dinner, but as I said, I'm not trying to pick up a girl, just practicing
I never got chance to talk to her because she was moving fast like a squirrel in "over the hedge"! We approached the register in the same time but as I tried to make an eye contact she obviously forgot to buy something, turned around and walked away!
I think trying to intercept her would be too intrusive and unnatural. What should I have done in this situation? Also, before opening a target is it necessary to make an eye contact first? What if a girl just glances in your direction?