Hey all
went out on sat night in sydney, australia. I was with a friend and we were thinking of organizing a trip to miami for new years eve. In australia during NYE is summer but we were not sure how cold it would be in Miami.

I decided to ask the girls next to me the question? and one of the girls said "Is this a trivia night?" in a heartbeat in the most sarcastic way. I was lost and confused, the only thing i could say was "we're just trying to organize a trip". Another answered, but i just felt so stupid that i didn't continue.

Looking back now i wish i had said "Yeah you got me. I am doing a reality tv show for channel 10 (ozzie tv channel), its called Trivia Bar. I was hoping you guys were going to be great contenders but you totally blew it. The worst thing about it, you blew you chance at $1M im sorry" and then stack from there.

So tell me, was it a shit test? and what would you guys have done?

Think it was. Or just annoyance from getting hit on all night.

Would have asked her friend if she's always that grumpy and then go with your line.

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It's not a shit test, a shit test is a test a girl throws at you to test ur manly hood or ur composure, if you get a shit test, you are on the good track to f-closing the girl....

Since this was ur opener, the girl is certainly not testing u are a suitable lover...

This is what men call bitchshield! Negging her works on this one...

Greetz!

Have you field tested this? Because I find it to be pretty ineffective at diffusing the negativity caused by a poor opener delivery, or the girls giving a bitchy answer. It opens up the obvious responses "yes" "no only to you" "are you always this annoying" etc. The time to say "is you friend always like this" is if you're ignoring the target and she butts in, or to say stuff like "does your friend always hit on guys like this?" But remember, this is done when your interaction is already going WELL, i.e. is a false disqualifier once they are INTERESTED in you, not as an IOD to match their IOD, which just leads to an escalation in negativity by both parties.

There are many reasons why they might have acted like this. It's one set, so it's not a big deal. If it kept happening I might look at how your delivery is going. If you're asking your opener like you're doing a survey, then you're going to get answers as engaging as filling out a survey. Remember to SMILE, open over the shoulder casually, and be having FUN. Also, you don't need to necessarily wait for their response. If you get a cold look initially, you can go straight in and say "the reason I ask is because my friend and I are planning a trip..." etc and try to lead into a DHV story of some kind. Then you open up multiple threads because they can choose to answer your original question, ask about the trip, ask about your friend, etc.

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yes bro, that was a test!

women make tests to see if you're an alpha man or just a lovable loser who reacts to their tests

the best way to handle any test is to never let them affect you! be unaffected to whatever happens outside of you and be positive and give people good energy and make them feel good

so next time you get a test just ignore it and continue, if she repeated it again give her a neg with a smile " where's ur off button? "

try it and let me know bro!

bitch shield

I woulda went with. Yeah it is, your on a hidden camera show where we use random strangers as contestants please wave to the camera here there and there. Im your host _______ and your name is? ( of course say it in a playful way )

Bitch shield, always be ready for that kind of stuff, you never know when it can come out.

I do not agree with this.

Once I was at an event here in Holland called Dance Valley.
Me and my friend were just walking around and saw two girls, we approached them. I said "hello" to one of the girls, the other one was already in conversation with my friend.
After I said "hello" she was realy bitchy and told me "go fuck yourself" or something like that. She was eating fries and wasn't someone who could loose another 4 pounds. She was kinda skinny.
I wasn't in the game back then, so didn't knew about openers, DHV's ect. Just talking. So I replied "Oh please, you should realy eat those fries, you are kinda skinny" (was completely automatic, cuz I got a little pissed, I didn't had any intention with the "hello") Then she completely changed her additude to a realy nice girl-- "Wanna have one also??? bling bling", and almost immediately she touched me, few min later we went dancing with the four of us. Nothing happened afterwards though.

No test, some women are just bitches....I would have responded politely with "Excuse me I was talking to her..."(meaning her friend) then turned around and ignored them.

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I WOULD HAVE SAID:

"No, I just asked your opinion. You dont have to go psycho on me."

Then I woulda followed up with the most basic or all shit test responces...

"Is there something wrong with just being nice?"

Make her feel stupid...

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I completely agree. Play possum and make her feel guilty.