Hey guys,

Been reading the forum for a few weeks and have decided to officially join. I already notice a difference in how women respond to me. I'll post an introduction later but thought I'd ask a question, as I'm having trouble deciding which direction to take.

So I met this really cute girl in a club on halloween. I came on a bit stronger than I'm used to, but backed off upon any signs of hesitancy, this seemed to be a solid strategy. I should mention I'm totally new to this, and not a club guy at all.

Long story short, we danced and made out for what felt like an hour. Prior to this I number closed. There was a really good vibe, we parted ways to get back to our friends. That weekend she added me on facebook, I took that as a good sign.

I've tried a bit of contact on facebook, but got no response. I got her attention with a text message. She found it funny and apologized for being busy, she's got mid-terms at the moment. Now I'm at a crossroads.

I'm not sure if I should back off and wait a week untill she's done with her school stuff, or drop a text now and then to keep her interested. Any ideas would be appreciated!

I can provide more details if necessary, but thanks for your time!

-H

firstly WELCOME TO THE COMMUNITY !!!!! well doen for wanting to sort this area of your life out . this is something many men cant do

anyway onto more stressing matters , your HB.

in my opinion i feel you shoud text her occassionally with some cocky and funny stuff.

theres a quality thread on here with some text openers which have worked amazingly well for me in the past.

the most important thing you can do now though is try to escalate. i dont give a shit how busy she is with "school work " she needs to have a break eventually.
tell her to get a cup of coffe with you one day and make it causual , only 30 mins or so but it just keeps her interest levels up.

let me know how it goes.

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Thanks smooth! Good to be here.

I immediately texted 'Made you look' after I read your reply. I got a response with another school-related excuse. Should I neg or be C/F? I was thinking of teasing her about making excuses, but that might come across wrong. Any ideas on how I should follow up?

follow up with cocky funny ( making excuses is perfect ) but add to the rest of the text . you want to get off this conversation as soon as possible. just do some fluff talk about whatever. ask her " what the best part of her day was " that sort of stuff.

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Don't text more than once a day.

Don't overthink things, she like you.

Arrange a mutually agreeable day two (during the week is better), and pick 2-3 fun places. Start somewhere casual, grab a drink and/or something to eat (not too fancy) then maybe hit an arcade, bowling alley, bar with live music, fairground, or anything with some energy, shit going on, and the opportunity to kino escalate. Finally, bounce to a more chilled out location near your house. Kino escalate past friendly to sexual if you haven't already, make sure to k-close in the 2nd or 3rd venue, and then invite her back to borrow a CD or something.

When doing her from behind, pull out and then spit on her back so she thinks you came. When she turns round POW cum on her face and then punch her in the nose. STRAWBERRY SHORTCAKE BITCH!

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this is crucial !!!!!

hell its the ONLY reason i got into pua lol

and i suppose the rest of his advice is alright aswell ( jokes its fucking golden )

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hahahahahahahahahahaha...... omg that shit is exactly what you need to do for PUA greatness.