so, a girl recently had a long ass upsetting story to tell, about her boyfriend this, that and the other. What do i do in these circumstances, let her tell me every little detail, be there for her or tell her to shut up?
and in what way do i do it?

This is obvious. When she tells you this, be there for her by telling her, "I will there for you." When she tells you that, tell her to shut up by telling her, "Shut up." Precision is key; precision is astonishment. Astonishment is excellence. Excellence works better if you are strong.

You don't have to deal with that shit... Depending on the situation, there are different ways to do it. In my case, I would either politely excuse myself, or I would just change the subject by interrupting her.

If you want to be a "bad boy", just walk away, or actually tell her to shut up.

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Don't hate, just dominate.

LOL I love this website. The above post are fantastic! Well honestly if I'm hanging out with a girl to fuck her, I would listen to her tell her I understand. Then hug her. Walk with her, make her feel special by telling her some shit like I've never met anyone with such an intersting perspective on relationships before. I really enjoy talking with you. Tell me more. It's so sad this happened to you, but you seem liked you learned so much from it. You're so strong.

Let that bitch blab for hours. Tell her that you are so interested in her. Invite her over so she can keep talking. She will blab and blab.

Eventually she will start to feel really comfortable with you. You won't have to try. She will just open up to you like a tub of butter.

Then go get your dick wet. Tell her she is amazing and that you really had the most incredible experience of your life. Tell her you have never felt like this before. Get her phone number and kick her out when you are done with her by telling her you have to work. She will take your words to heart. She will develope a deep infatuation with you because her imagination will run wild. You will have her completely at your mercy. The only probelm - you probably wont want it anymore because the challenge is gone.

Good luck.

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Walk Hard

Wow, two interesting views on this
i think this would only work if you're already in her good books and that she wants you, if shes not long known you then she'll think your a prick i'm guessing
Thats the way i'd usually do it. Although, i'd never know what to say other than 'i'm there for you' and probably end up turning it into friend zone in a way. Now i know how to build rapport at the same time thanks for the feedback magnum.