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TBH Scyth I've found that unlikely to work. Men make the plans. That's what makes us men.
In any case, I've found that girls can figure out our interest levels pretty easily just by us thinking about it. They read body language well.
As for rejection, ignore it unless you're in the bedroom trying to escalate. In this case, go back one step and then try again after this.
I could give a lot more info, but I'm not sure if I'm answering your question right. Could you clarify?
Well there is a bit of history - we have gone back and forth a bit. Lately we have been getting closer once again. I always thought I showed enough interest to the point where I have literally told her i liked her.
Yesterday we were talking, albeit on the phone, told her that "for what its worth I enjoyed talking to her even though I didnt show it half the time" she responds with " youre wrong, you dont even show it half the time"
I ofcourse took that as her saying - show me more interest moreso than your currently showing.
She is a bit of an insecure girl and I havent been the knight in shining armour in the past - so was just thinking whether she was testing me? We hang out in the same social circle and whenever i see her I act total cold towards her, not intentionally but maybe out of nervousness. We have gone out a few times just her and I.
By the way when I say she has rejected me she has always had a good excuse, like today is Diwali so she couldnt hang out, a couple of weeks ago she had family stuff.
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