Hello... got me an issue here! warning for misspellings Im in a rush


Long story short met this girl at a party about 5 months ago... her boyfriend since 8 years was also there, anyway I gamed her and she went home with me that night. The boyfriend did not dump her... we kept in contact everyday via texting and met up again 3 weeks later when her boyfriend was out of town... anyways we did this for a couple of months then she dumped him for me. moved out and we became a couple

Now fastforward two months lately she has started flaking on me but always sets up new dates. And when we meet up she is totally in love and cant keep her hands of me.

Now this last weekend I met up with her ex at a party and talked abit with him and he started bad mouthing her, I did not really care much I was too drunk to even listen.

turns out the day after he had came to her workplace and told her that I had been badmouthing her saying she was a slut and I was just using her for sex... and she called me up angry as hell basicly saying its over... I was so hungover and in chock that I told her meet me later so we can talk about this so she did....

This I regret but I turned in to such a fucking bitch.... almost pleading with her to not belive him and said I was sorry that I even talked to him. she was very cold with me and told me she needed a break too think things over also telling me that she rushed in to this relationship too fast and that it wasent me it was her (LOL) she still wanted too keep in contact and told me it was fine if I saw others during the break she hugged me and left.... I was very down for a day or two... now 5 days later I have not contacted her at all

First I thought i was in love but Im already getting over her...I dont want a relationship with this girl but I miss the sex... she was fantastic in bed. Also miss her company she was fun too hang out with, just as nutty as me when it came too humor.'

* what happend was that I turned AFC on her and she lost interest gradually

* this girl can not be trusted so serious relationship with her is impossible, dont want it dont need it

* but I still want to fuck her

* she knows stuff about me that could get me in too trouble, so I dont want her running around talking shit


So is there away too turn things around and get her interest back up so I could atleast save my pride, and maybe fuck her a few more times ?

What Ive been doing is NO contact and she has not contacted me... how long should I wait too contact her? and if she contacts me how should I play it out?

Also for the record she is 31(very immature though) Im 25 if that matters in anyway

Apreciate any help... now Im going out clubbing cheers!