A (More Mature) View On Why MM Is Bad



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PostPosted: Fri Oct 22, 2010 1:20 pm 
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Many learning programs on all sorts of subject teach stuff that is limiting or even plain wrong in order to get you started. This is necessary in order to not overwhelm the beginner.

MM teaches people to use primarily the content of what they say (DHVs Negs etc) to create attraction in girls they talk to because as a complete novice that the one thing that you have complete control over. Of course most people reache a point where they realise that non-verbal stuff, inner game, confidence, projecting sexual intent etc etc works better and by then they are in a position to use those tools.


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Many learning programs on all sorts of subject teach stuff that is limiting or even plain wrong in order to get you started. This is necessary in order to not overwhelm the beginner.
No, it's not. You can teach the correct stuff that isn't limiting little by little and you won't overwhelm anyone. What you're saying is kinda silly.
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MM teaches people to use primarily the content of what they say (DHVs Negs etc) to create attraction in girls they talk to because as a complete novice that the one thing that you have complete control over.
Novices do NOT have "complete control" over DHVing. They come off as incongruent and, even worse, they develop a habit of dishonesty without them even realizing it, which in the long run affects their self esteem in a negative way.
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Of course most people reache a point where they realise that non-verbal stuff, inner game, confidence, projecting sexual intent etc etc works better and by then they are in a position to use those tools.
Projecting sexual state, on the other hand, is something very simple that anyone with a normal functioning sexual response system can easily perform.


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one thing i realised the other day, is that it makes talking to a group of people sound like some mega task, which its not.

and unless i misinterpreted it, it makes talking to a group of people seem like you're in the centre of it and everyone is in a circle chatting, with you just being this big performer-which no one is like. apart from mystery who is a magician i guess. but i bet he isnt like that in sets anywho.

at most you might just be talking to the one you want and shaking hands with the rest of them and asking a few questions about them and a quick joke to build rapport and a laugh to show you're a good guy and theyll want you to get with her(generalising here).

but i never got too far with MM as i found simpler things.

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^^ good post Belenos.

I also think the relevant posts regarding the strength and weaknesses of MM are pretty good content-wise, and I'd still love to see some posts like this for other methods, because I think that would be a relevant resource for many here.

RSD? (a more in-depth one)
David X?
Vin DC?
Sinn?
Love Systems?
Juggler?
GunW?
Ross Jeffries/SS?
PUA Training/Adam Lyons/Gambler?
Paragon Project?
Asian Playboy?

perhaps people with experience in these systems could post? When I have time I'll try to put something together for SS/MM/RSD which I have experience with. I'll also try to give you guys an overview of whats happening in NZD, and with Lookup Lifestyle (local NZ company), who I've done a bit of coaching for in the past.
I would like to hear an analysis on these methods as well.


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I would like to see an in depth analysis of all the other methods also.
Well all the other worth while methods where you have tried the theory in the real world and assessed the outcomes.
I'm still interested in MM but am I wasting my time on MM ? Gunwitch ? Vin Di Carlo ?
Should we all just skip it and approach girls through trial and error ?
Because I've been to certain forums that are totally against PUA all together and I want to know am I wasting my time ?


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PostPosted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 6:27 am 
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what alot of u boys dont understand is that the Mystery Method should only be used by mystery, hence its the mystery method.

u c it works for him because hes created it to suit his character perfectly.
YOU ARE NOT MYSTERY people soo u cannot use his method. yes ovcourse reading it and studying it is good but u cannot expect to have the same impact using it as he has.

im a naughty pencil soo i use the naughty pencil method. u cannot use this method because ive made it too suit me and only me.

Remember u each need to develop ur own method.

IF u wanna learn how to become bettta with girls then sure use MM.

IF u wanna become the very best, create ur own game.

DONT PLAY THE GAME, CHANGE THE GAME

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